Why he didn't unblock me?

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A few months ago we had fight, it was my fault and he got mad at me.
He blocked me on whats app and instagram.
I called him via a simple message on the phone, we heared and saw each other, then we reconciled and now we see each other normally but he didn't unblock me.
The last time we saw each other he said he was going to unblock me on instagram, after that I sent him a message "Unblock me on instagram so I can see your picture from the sea" and he said "I willl".
But he didn't do it, and its been a week.
That was the last time when we chatted.
Last time we saw each other he asked me when we will see each other next time and I said when you come back from the sea. We saw each other on Thursday and he left the following Tuesday.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

Obviously he hasn't gotten over the fight and it doesn't look like he will I mean you have spent time together you have talk about this and apologize and still he hasn't unblocked you so I would think that you should give him an ultimatum "unblock me or else "and see what happens if he cares for you he shouldn't be so childish and unblock you if he doesn't then you should find you your best friend because you don't want to hurt your best friend or make him mad at you if he's your best friend then he will love you no matter what

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

has he actually used the apps he's blocked you on since, or has he bot loaded them up yet? sometimes it can be a case of being so pissed off at someone some people can uninstall after blocking cos the initial blocking frustrated them a bit more than they thought, and another person may have upset them not long after so hey presto.. app (s) gone

and he's probably seeing how you handle basic communication with each other first for a time before he decides to unblock you

1Sophisticatedme · Accepted Answer

Enjoy what you got and hey play it by ear. He isn't near by and you got no one there, and if its meant to be its meant to be. He isn't going to unblock you until you demand it harshly from him, then he will either ignore you or would unblock you bc he knows you are seriously. But the i love you part, becareful bc sometimes we as girls want to hear that, but he might just said it to see if you love him back and really mean it.

modelUN242 · Accepted Answer

He sounds unhinged? Really blocking people? That’s so high school. I mean you guys are grown adults, have grown conversations. Not when someone gets mad, block them lol. I would leave, seems like a red flag. He’s a man child. And he delays unblocking you because he doesn’t see you worth anything, probably for just sleeping with.

coachTanthony · Answer

He probably talking to other women on these apps. So you will stay blocked for as long as possible.

akshay1998 · Answer

I am saying this as I did the same, I blocked my girlfriend and expected that's she will contact me more often I don't care if we aren't connected to social media because that's just something like a distraction and we then use to talk more often than usual so yes it might be like that🤔

scorpy04 · Answer

Instagram is nothing to worry about I would probably say it wasn't a priority to him so he forgets to unblock you He may at the time been speaking to people about fight and he could be worried what you would think if you saw them If the relationship to continue then relax Enjoy it if its meant to be your trust him as he trusts you No trust then its a loosening battle

pajamasam · Answer

1 of 2 things

1- he just keeps forgetting to do it.

2- there's something else that he's still upset about and he is holding out. He's waiting to see how things go before he unblocks you, almost like leaving a piece of the bargain un resolved so he can still have the option to bring up the other thing thats bothering him.

ohshee · Answer

Sorry I need to use ur post to find out why some one blocked me secret 6610 what ever can you tell me why you blocked me if u read this damn may be I blocked u and don't know it I love ur question can u in block me and I will check to see if it's. On my side thank you

teachsex2girls · Answer

He is the kind of man that is using you, is he embarrassed , doesn't want anyone to know that your back in his life, and he is asking you if you love, kiss, stay, using you for sex, the reason is simple, he has another girl which he is using doesn't want either of you to know bout each other, so stick up for yourself B4 you get hurt, tell him the trust you had is gone, tell him B4 he hurts you that u are seeing another guy, break off from him

FreyaRed · Answer

Forget him, this guy isn't even willing to give you a banal favor like unblocking on IG.
Why did he block you in first place if he insists so vehemently to like you?
Why do you care at all for someone who behaves contradictory?

walt0462 · Answer

Chances are he's hasn't been using IG in a while so he just doesn't think about it and if he does post something he probably sharing it from another App and never actually getting on IG or any of the other social platforms that he's able to unblock you... I do that all the time i might share some pictures and simply choose where I want to share it to from the share pull down sub menu an never actually having to open the IG, FB, or Twitter, etc..

BillOwen · Answer

He do not want love from you and he's trying to trick you by asking you to be his girlfriend and get something from you, but i don't know why you still keep trusting him.

Maybe you still love him. Lol
But just ignore him too.

limitedstuff · Answer

It doesn't sound like he really wants you to be his girlfriend. If he did why did he do all of that? Perhaps he's hiding something on Instagram or he doesn't want you seeing who is liking and whom is liking his pics

YHL6965 · Answer

I think he is still bitter, in denial or conflicted about the fact that he wants a relationship with you but you don't. Let time do its thing, he is bound to settle down on something eventually. How would it make you feel if he decided not not see you or talk to you ever again?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

His level of commitment does not seem to be very strong. I assume that is based on your past history.

Natashakir72 · Answer

Is this the same guy as always? I still think you guys have a pretty toxic relationship honestly

Synikal · Answer

Common sense says he is involved with someone else and you are playing prey to ignore what's infront of you. He is going to twll you exactly what you want to hear. It is up to you to stand your ground and stop allowing your emotions to fqll for the obvious bs...

TheAfrikan · Answer

You twothink it would be better if you 2 take separately ways. Your love story is always crippled and more tha stressing each other, which is not healthy.
Try to make your self at peace and date another guy, though happiness does not always rely on love fro a guy or a girl.

Flower7 · Answer

He doesn't want you on his social media. Maybe he's hiding something, but there's no way to know for sure.

kmike2020 · Answer

somthins there that he font want u to see, he didn't forget to un block you ,, people have their face in the phones as long as their awake ,,, whats on there is anybodys guess , but he is not wantin you to see it

SphynxUK · Answer

Does he use social media daily? If he doesn’t, I wouldn’t be too concerned. On the other hand, he might simply prefer you to remain blocked. It’s his prerogative.

menina · Answer

Maybe he forgot. It seems that he's not upset and that he likes you. Perhaps you should ask him why he didn't unblock you. He's the only one who knows the true reason.

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

He doesn't want you both arguing on social media again. Why can't you be happy that you're getting alone fine without it. We dont forget what happened even though we forgive. Don't push him.

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