Hot body attracts guys or girls who want a hook up?

[Rosabelle98]

I realised the guys I attracted are all interested in a one night stand and I can’t make them commit to me. When I was crushing on a nice guy and try to talk to him, he’s fine with it but he avoided me when he knew I liked him and only considered me as just a friend. I didn’t do anything wrong I’m just trying to know more about him since he’s totally different from all the guys who all wanted a one night stand. My ex boyfriend kinda hesitated when I ask him when he wanna get married after we finished the act. (I was still virgin but I did touch his dick using my hand). I had medium sized boobs, a flat stomach and a nice ass. Yet I can’t attract a guy who loves me for who I’m. I only workout to please myself not to please others. It helps me gain confidence and makes me stay healthy. My crush is a rare breed from most guys. He’s kind, compassionate, understanding, patient, he’s got almost all the qualities I want in a guy and the fact that he avoided me makes me nearly lose hope in finding a good partner in a country like this. I don’t mind trying again to get the right guy who loves me for being me. I don’t mind waiting, he must be out there somewhere in the same country as me I will really treasure him and stay faithful to him because he’s hard to get. Do any of you face this problem?

[_SOARER]

To answer the title question. It has the tendency to attract lustful men

To answer the extrapolation:

It makes me sad that you seem to have lost confidence in yourself and fear you won't be able to find a good man. You are more than your body. You are valuable, you have a soul, and it has dignity.
Dress modestly, talk to him about his passions, desires, his vision, his ideas and show him you have your own! not only that focus on the aspects of those things that overlap between the two of you. Keep spending time with him, get to know him, and let him get to know you.

I wish you luck. Great question by the way <3

[Rosabelle98]

Thank you for giving me hope 😊

[_SOARER]

You got this girl <3 It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. <3

[Jjpayne]

So for this issue. Focus more on your personality. Embrace what you like and find a guy that does too. I'd even suggest covering up your body and make your face more plain. Find a guy that likes you for you and not your looks. Go after your niche or hobby, if it's art, music, film, games, fashion, reading... Etc and in groups that like things like that guys will follow. Ones that are not looking for bodies but people with similar interests

[Danny_dan92]

Both do.


What women don’t realize is how many desperate men there are out there.


So when they see a girl that is “easy”


A good handful of men will want to fuck her, even if she is not “hot” or “sexy”


Cause it’s a path of least resistance to try to fuck a girl that puts herself out there, than a woman of substance and self worth and makes men she deems attractive work for it

[Sam_The_Savage]

Girl relaxed.
There is life beyond boys n dicks. If someone into you than he will come to u. Don't over think. Njoy life.

[Rosabelle98]

Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

Most guys don’t want a commitment. We aren’t biologically programmed to be monogamous.
But some males meet girls who actually make them wait for sex and they are forced to get to know her as a means of trying to sleep with her. It’s then that the male starts to see her as more than just sex.

[Reaperbot666]

this goes for both sides to some extend.

• your looks matter for hookups and quick sexual fun.
• your personality and attitude matter for relationships.

[coolaboola]

Carry on doing things just for you. Yes you will get a lot of offers of one night stands but if that is not what you are into then do not do it just to please others.

[mrgspoter]

It's not good no, but it's not easy to get it right takes some luck too you know

[Smirnoff23]

Stay strong you will find him

[Smf1989]

Dont give ul

[Rosabelle98]

Thank you 😊

[Smf1989]

Ur welcome