You have had some difficult experiences with men, so it makes sense that you don 't feel as comfortable as before. Just remember not ALL men are assholes. Maybe you should start hanging around a different crowd.
To answer your question : is it normal to hate men? No I don't think it is normal. Hate is a very strong emotion. Are you sure it is hatred that you feel? Maybe it is just dislike?
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Yep join the club. Been cheated on, dated a guy that was gay having his dick sucked in the bathroom by another man. I don't see what value most loser ass men bring to the table. Bunch of liars and cheats who have fragile egos and dicks that can't get hard, did I mention the gay thing too. Many undercover GAY MEN who say their straight.
Becoming bitter and jaded is pretty normal but to blame all men for the actions of some is completely unacceptable, its no different from being a racist etc.
It's not normal but it isn't a surprise, feminism and feminazis are creating a disparity in our society to hate on men for every thing we are. Its a shame because you'll find some men are v. decent and dont think the same way as abusers.
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Hey you're past the golden age of 30. Now s***s going to get real. You think it was hard before. We tolerated you because we wanted to get laid. Now your looks a declining. So at least you know now the guys who show interest are truly interested or really really desperate.
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Brother i don't know about the women around your area but many people told me that I don't look anywhere past 25.
You men if anything expire after 35 so I don't know what monstrosity YOU look like. Jabba the hut? Get outta here.
if you have been hurt by the wrong guys then psychologically yes it's normal to instinctively begin to resent or even hate guys... however dont let those arseholes taint your image of all guys, cos not all of us are like that
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Those that play the game get frustrated at the end and blame the opposite sex. The key is to stop playing the game and seek those who don't. However, that requires repentance and acceptance of Christ. Those that give themselves away eventually tire of being used. It is never too late to change, but it starts with acknowledgement of sin and confession. It it ends in salvation with acceptance of Christ' sacrifice. He is the source of True Love.
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Honestly I don't see it as crazy based on: Your obviously painful experience How men treat women worldwide, it makes it hard no to feel resentful How many men tend to wipe off all the prejudices women are subjugated on this Earth How many men always make it about themselves whenever you try to talk about women's issues And so on... So, yes, I understand. This is a defense mechanism.
I went through a woman-hating stage in my mid 20's. The only problem with it was that I just freaking loved women too much and always went back for more. I worked through it :)
Eh, it makes sense. I've said many times that I can understand why some men become woman haters but of course it's just feelings in the moment that drive these toxic and very temporary thoughts.
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You have had some difficult experiences with men, so it makes sense that you don 't feel as comfortable as before.
Just remember not ALL men are assholes. Maybe you should start hanging around a different crowd.
To answer your question : is it normal to hate men? No I don't think it is normal. Hate is a very strong emotion. Are you sure it is hatred that you feel? Maybe it is just dislike?
Yep join the club. Been cheated on, dated a guy that was gay having his dick sucked in the bathroom by another man. I don't see what value most loser ass men bring to the table. Bunch of liars and cheats who have fragile egos and dicks that can't get hard, did I mention the gay thing too. Many undercover GAY MEN who say their straight.
We have money :)
Hate is a strong word.
Becoming bitter and jaded is pretty normal but to blame all men for the actions of some is completely unacceptable, its no different from being a racist etc.
So you might want to get your thoughts in check.
It's not normal but it isn't a surprise, feminism and feminazis are creating a disparity in our society to hate on men for every thing we are. Its a shame because you'll find some men are v. decent and dont think the same way as abusers.
Hey you're past the golden age of 30. Now s***s going to get real. You think it was hard before. We tolerated you because we wanted to get laid. Now your looks a declining. So at least you know now the guys who show interest are truly interested or really really desperate.
Brother i don't know about the women around your area but many people told me that I don't look anywhere past 25.
You men if anything expire after 35 so I don't know what monstrosity YOU look like. Jabba the hut? Get outta here.
if you have been hurt by the wrong guys then psychologically yes it's normal to instinctively begin to resent or even hate guys... however dont let those arseholes taint your image of all guys, cos not all of us are like that
Those that play the game get frustrated at the end and blame the opposite sex. The key is to stop playing the game and seek those who don't. However, that requires repentance and acceptance of Christ. Those that give themselves away eventually tire of being used. It is never too late to change, but it starts with acknowledgement of sin and confession. It it ends in salvation with acceptance of Christ' sacrifice. He is the source of True Love.
Honestly I don't see it as crazy based on:
Your obviously painful experience
How men treat women worldwide, it makes it hard no to feel resentful
How many men tend to wipe off all the prejudices women are subjugated on this Earth
How many men always make it about themselves whenever you try to talk about women's issues
And so on...
So, yes, I understand. This is a defense mechanism.
I went through a woman-hating stage in my mid 20's. The only problem with it was that I just freaking loved women too much and always went back for more. I worked through it :)
I understand the feeling of blaming most men for certain men’s actions but that’s not the case and there are good men
I feel the same about Women. But you have to ask yourself this... are you hating men? Or the situations you have been through?
Key thing you said is you hate yourself. Good thing you acknowledge that, hope your work pays off.
You would probably like us a lot better, if you stopped coming to GaG so much.
That's normal. They can be hard to deal with sometimes.
Eh, it makes sense. I've said many times that I can understand why some men become woman haters but of course it's just feelings in the moment that drive these toxic and very temporary thoughts.
I hate three out of every four men I encounter.
But it's the same for women.
I'd say it's normal. We all react that way sometimes. I feel serious dislike toward females in general at times for related issues.
well i was sorta pissed at women yesterday, i was mad at everything tbh, look at my last 4 questions and you'll see lol
so i know what you mean
Nah that's not normal, frustration and bitterness isn't normal
Let yourself feel without judging. Maybe you need to heal