Why does he keeps coming and going back between me and his side chick?

[Anonymous]

He says he loves me but he can't commit and wants to stay friends with me as well as his side chick

[abhi_97]

These are often the signs of immaturity. He just wants to fulfil his physical needs and wants to keep you on the side if things go bad between him and his friends with benefits. It's not a man you're with, he's just a boy.

I'm sure he lives with his parents and doesn't even earn on his own.

[Asker]

He lives alone

[abhi_97]

Wish you all the best then

[Nawlins34]

Why does he keeps coming and going back between me and his side chick? - Because you and the side chick allow it.

He's saying he loves you because saying less won't get you in bed with him. (He doesn't love you).

Make his decision easy and dump him, move on with your life. Good luck and be safe.

[Anonymous]

bahahaha girl why are you calling the other girl his side chick you aren't his girlfriend so he is free to do whatever he wants why he keeps coming back because you allow him too

[Asker]

I am

[Asker]

Like we were dating but I found about them even she's cheating on her boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

you aren't his girlfriend get that through your head you even said yourself above that he can't commit and that he wants to stay friends that is not you being his girlfriend that is more you just being a pussy for him

[Hazelstar99]

He's a douchebag and by being still in contact with him. You're telling him that it is okay for him to treat you that way.

[SjE78]

cos he's using you when his sidechick isn't interested, or is it you are his side chick? or maybe you and his side chick are both his side chick's whenever his actual girlfriend isn't feeling upto things...

[hornyafbi69]

Sorry hun but he's not in love with you we don't fuck another girl even we are in love

[Surely]

Because you and the side chick allow him to do this.
Why should he commit to one lay when he can have two or more?

[allaboutyou2]

Because he does not respect either one of you. Respect yourself and don't let him play you.

[ManWithThePlan123]

Because he's an asshole? Or maybe just horny.

[British_Empire_1707]

Because he can. Because you both let him.

[AmeerX]

You think you can handle sharing him with her?

[TheAfrikan]

Huh he basically enjoys sleeping with you both.

[Anonymous]

Because both you and his side chick let him.

[In_Trance]

How old is he?

[Asker]

Just 21

[In_Trance]

So there's the single biggest factor. He has no idea what he wants, and will take whatever he can get.
He gets this because you allow him to get this.

[reptocarl2]

Because you allow it