I found out that he's married. Should I tell him I found out already?

[Anonymous]

He's been hitting on me and trying to meet up etc. he's been doing this for about a month and today after a google search I found out he's married.

[John_Galt]

it depends on how you feel about him. If you actually like him. Best to bring it up and find out what’s up. “He May be getting divorced or something”. If your undecided... keep silent about it for a while, just to see if he will be honest about it. Then when you do confront him about it... if he isn’t getting divorced or some strange circumstance. you’ll know he’s dishonest and you should run for the hills!!

[Asker]

Tbh I would've respected him so much more if he was honest from the beginning. Stuff like that should never be hidden. Anyways, I was thinking that later on when he wakes up and texts me I'd send him the proof... tell him to never talk to me again... and wish him the best. What do you think?

[John_Galt]

if he has totally crushed any good faith with you, then yes... might as well get it over with. “I would personally be interested in what his explanation was.. but I would be very weary of more lies”.

[Asker]

Exactly and even if he were to tell the truth... I still wouldn't trust him anymore.

[spartan55]

What would be the point of keeping that to yourself?

[Asker]

There’s no point. Sure, I was overjoyed with the thought of finding a guy that seemed perfect and I was looking forward to accepting him and being in my first relationship but it’s needless to say that discovering this has completely changed the way I see him. Later on when he wakes up I’ll let him see the proof, tell him to leave me alone and I’ll wish him the best.

[Anonymous]

At least tell his wife. Make sure to print screen everything and send to her. I have done this many times. Make sure you send it in a way so he isn’t the one to open/receive it so he can’t get rid of it before she sees it.

[Asker]

I was thinking of just sending him a screenshot of proof that he's married and telling him to leave me alone. What do you think?

[spartan55]

I agree, tell his wife too.

[SavageGirl101]

Send him a screenshot of “I know your married” and then tell him to leave u alone

[Asker]

I agree 💯 That's exactly what I was planning on doing

[SavageGirl101]

Periodttt Queen I hope it works out for u hun❤️

[In_Trance]

tell him