What does it mean if a guy friend shows up to your house unannounced?

Question

He did something that made me upset (he was very mean in how he was talking about me to a mutual friend). I like him more than a friend but I don't know if he does the same with me. he's shown signs of being interested in me though which is why i'm confused. just to give you a snippet, he put his hands around me during a movie recently... but then he moved it back 5 minutes later.

ANYWAYS... he wanted to talk to me bc I think he found out that I learned about the convo from the mutual friend. I kept telling him I was busy. so he just showed up at my house and waited 20 min outside before I opened the door. it was only a 5 min convo... something he could've done over text. But he said he wanted to do it in person. SO... what does this mean? why would a guy show up to someones house like that when I kept telling him I was busy?

Updates:

1 mo

i think he also likes another mutual friend of ours. which is why i'm confused

Answer 1

SavageGirl101 | 65 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Dude he likes u cause no guy friend is just gonna come unannounced at your house like that even my best friends don’t do that 😭

Asker

1 mo
or is he just trying to save face? he's prob scared to lose a friend or scared i'll bad mouth him to everyone and expose how he really is. no?
Asker

1 mo
no guy friend who likes you would say shitty things about you either, would they? like apparently I did something with venmo that ticked him off. if a guy liked you, would he get mad over that?
SavageGirl101

1 mo
Oooo I didn’t know that he insulted u... I mean some guys if the like insult u in a playing manner they may like u but his doesn’t seem playful... but still he could’ve called or texted cause I’m pretty sure u didn’t have him blocked
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Asker

1 mo
yeah that's why i'm confused if he likes me more than a friend or just sees me as a friend. cuz if he just saw me as a friend he would've just texted me
SavageGirl101

1 mo
That’s wht I just said😭 yea he definitely likes u including with the movie thing😳
SavageGirl101

1 mo
I would think that if he likes another friend of yours he’s tryna distract himself by liking her cause he doesn’t think u like him back cause u don’t give any signs❤️

Answer 2

Asker

or is he just trying to save face? he's prob scared to lose a friend or scared i'll bad mouth him to everyone and expose how he really is. no?

Answer 3

Asker

no guy friend who likes you would say shitty things about you either, would they? like apparently I did something with venmo that ticked him off. if a guy liked you, would he get mad over that?

Answer 4

SavageGirl101

Oooo I didn’t know that he insulted u... I mean some guys if the like insult u in a playing manner they may like u but his doesn’t seem playful... but still he could’ve called or texted cause I’m pretty sure u didn’t have him blocked

Answer 5

Asker

yeah that's why i'm confused if he likes me more than a friend or just sees me as a friend. cuz if he just saw me as a friend he would've just texted me

Answer 6

SavageGirl101

That’s wht I just said😭 yea he definitely likes u including with the movie thing😳

Answer 7

SavageGirl101

I would think that if he likes another friend of yours he’s tryna distract himself by liking her cause he doesn’t think u like him back cause u don’t give any signs❤️

Answer 8

Tututwerl09 | 307 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

What did he say to you when he talked to you?

Asker

1 mo
he just kept apologizing and said he was a bad friend and that I didn't deserve that. I even told him... dude... you could've texted me that... why show up in person? and he just said he wanted to be mature and do it in person. but is he doing this just as a friend or because he likes me more than a friend?
Tututwerl09

1 mo
I think he likes you more than a friend give him a chance

Answer 9

Asker

he just kept apologizing and said he was a bad friend and that I didn't deserve that. I even told him... dude... you could've texted me that... why show up in person? and he just said he wanted to be mature and do it in person. but is he doing this just as a friend or because he likes me more than a friend?

Answer 10

Tututwerl09

I think he likes you more than a friend give him a chance

Answer 11

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

there's no way your age is accurate

Asker

1 mo
me and him are in our mid 20's. my bad age is wrong on here. but what do you think? is he just a psychopath, likes me, or just sees me as a friend if he just shows up to my house like that?
In_Trance

1 mo
I think it's gnarly.
Asker

1 mo
extreme? but what does that mean lol
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In_Trance

1 mo
honestly, I'd have no time for that nonsense. Wanna beer? cool, come over and we'll have a beer.

Answer 12

Asker

me and him are in our mid 20's. my bad age is wrong on here. but what do you think? is he just a psychopath, likes me, or just sees me as a friend if he just shows up to my house like that?

Answer 13

In_Trance

I think it's gnarly.

Answer 14

Asker

extreme? but what does that mean lol

Answer 15

In_Trance

honestly, I'd have no time for that nonsense. Wanna beer? cool, come over and we'll have a beer.

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