What does it mean when a guy friend is suddenly inviting me to his house to hang out while his family is there?

[Ofoceansbeaches]

I suggested some other public places but I noticed he clearly prefers me to visit his house. He is a close guy friend and the thing is we've been chatting a lot the past few months.

I'm not comfortable going there yet because I might meet his sister and other family members living in that house and knowing my guy friend is an introvert, i know he has not brought anyone home. I mean i'm even shock he wants me to visit. So, i am conscious what his family members might think if he brings me home. What does this mean? He's been mentioning it frequently lately everytime i mention his place or his hometown.

[Dawnn13]

Umm this just sounds to me that he wants a genuine friendship with you. . . He is Inviting you over while his family is there doesn't sound like he is trying to sleep with you or anything.
It would be different if he only invited you over when he has the house to himself.
If you really want to have a true friendship and that's all then you should go hang out and meet his family (if he was a girl friend that wouldn't be a problem) but if you actually like him and are hoping to be more than friends then you probably shouldn't go because it sounds like you might get friend zoned.

[noworriesifnot]

He’s attracted to you and probably wants to speed up the pace of a potential relationship with you. Remember there’s no rush and if you do also feel attracted to him, you can remind him this, especially if he is inexperienced and doesn’t know what he’s doing. If you’re not, ask him to clarify his intentions and let him know you aren’t attracted to him/don’t want to ruin your friendship. Either way, tread carefully and be safe about this. Too many creeps out there with awful intentions. Just be safe, don’t get into any sketchy situations with this guy bc it sounds like it could possibly go there if intentions aren’t clear.

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s a little weird that he wants you to meet his family that fast when you haven’t even been on a date with him yet , That would be weird to me as well if a girl wanted me to meet her family that fast , like she was desperate or something. I would just be honest and tell the truth that I don’t feel comfortable and would like to get to know you first before meeting your family. If he can’t respect your decision then kick his ass to the curb ,

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Just a thought. Maybe his family has been bugging him to get a wife/girlfriend lately, and he thinks if he brings you over to meet them, they'll assume you two are a couple, and stop bugging him so much.

[DishLady]

It means you’re a close friend who gets on well with his family — you’re someone he can “show” his family so they know he hangs out with good people.
Under some circumstances — in combination with many other factors — he might be looking for their reaction to you so he can possibly shift the friendship into new territory, however don’t count on this 100%.

[katiesmuff]

Well yes what better place to be comfortable and easier for him to get into your pants.

[laly520]

I would say be careful

I dont sense anything good from it

those who rush be hiding lot

[dustybiker2]

If you aren't comfortable now is the time to speak up and say so. Be kind.

[CocacolaGirl1993]

Sounds like he’s looking for more then friendship or getting into your pants.

[Anonymous]

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[eagle1951]

he wants you to meet them and they you

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's into you