What does it mean of guy mirrors my text reply time?

[Anonymous]

Usually he replied back to my messages within 10min. One time during chatting it took me 30min to respond to him. After that he started to respond to me 30min-1 h lol.
is he being immature?

[glutton4punishment]

It mqy have something to do with the context of his message, he was waiting for a response on, bein respect (is) a 2-way street and all..

If it wasn't anything important or screwed with his day somehow, by waiting for your reply, then yeh... he's just (immaturely) showing ya how it felt, is all. Lol

[Asker]

by the way So if guy reveals something about himself that I didn’t really directly ask him, is it sign of interest? For example he posted a picture about him being in the forest. I asked him ” ’Are you in the forest?”
Then he was like ” yeah I’m in the forest. I was doing a long jog. I also like to take walks there. I recommend it”.

[glutton4punishment]

Wow, yeh... that would be yet another childish way, of getting you to ask him bout his day. Most people grow out of that sort of excruciating behavior and simply speak, when something is on their mind. There's always those few who feel the need to have someone drag the shit out of em.. like pulling teeth, of course.

So if ya don't particularly care to hear about tree frolicking, well then... you must not care about em!

Thus their ability to shift the blame for your ever having been annoyed to begin with... back in your face.

That way, when they start monopolizing the entire conversation, official "dog house rules", prevent any sort of complaining on your end.

Even if it turns out that his adventure in the forrest, wasn't as riveting as one may think.. Yup, can't complain about that aspect, either..

I'm fairly sure a woman came up with the concept, as it truly is diabolical and and all, lol.

Eesh, where'd you find this guy? Lol

Anyway, if he gives ya any grief about your not asking him about his tree story, beins it was a part of his job and everything!

You tell him, well thanks a lot for telling me what it is you do for a living... finally!!

Glad to know you could end up dead or worse, a vegetable! Then what?

I'd feel obligated to take care of your ass, then! Was (that) your plan all along.. you sick son of a bitch? ..

.. etc, lol.

That wasn't meant as a slight to any lumberjack, landscaper types either, by the way. I (know) it's some back breaking shit and all.

Just said it as a means for ya to flip the conversation back around, if ya happened to find yourself backed against the ropes, at some point, is all. Lol.. good luck!

[Asker]

So in short he was carrying the conversation?

[glutton4punishment]

I wouldn't describe that as "carrying" even much of a thought, let alone an entire conversations worth, lol.

But yeh, he was definitely trying to give it that little nudge he needed, to be off the hook for any wrong doings on (his) part.

That coupled with his snide remark about how ya should walk through his wilderness getaway yourself one day, would certainly have been all I needed... in order to quit giving a shit about it or him in general, I can tell ya that..

If ya (still) care though and I'm 99% sure ya do, sigh... then he certainly seemed like the type of asshole, who would resort to childish shit like that, yes.

Equally as disturbing, however (to me) at least... is the fact, he also strikes me as the type of genius, that would fuck it up in the process, lol.

So I dunno chic, if (that's) your ideal man, then I wish ya's luck and all. Cause knowing ya shouldn't waste your time with people like that, (should) just be common knowledge, at this point... not a question.

[AdithyaR]

It probably means he's letting out his inner child with you and kinda playing around. Which means he's comfortable around you and likes talking to you.

[Asker]

I don't know I was wondering is he doing that on purpose.

[AdithyaR]

Most likely is doing it on purpose as a joke. But that's most likely a good thing.

[Asker]

Damn I took it as him being immature. Why do i think it’s a good thing? Do u think he’s interested?

[AdithyaR]

I don't know about interested but he does seem very comfortable around you and likes talking to you. Maybe he is interested

[Asker]

by the way I’ve been the one who has mostly initiated conversations. Now we haven’t talked for 3 weeks! He doesn’t talk to me unless I text him first...

[AdithyaR]

Okay now that is a different sign. Guys generally will text back if he's interested, uless he's really shy.
Is he like introverted or shy?

[Asker]

He has always texted back. He just doesn’t initiate texts.

[AdithyaR]

So most likely just shy.

[spartan55]

100% coincidence, GUYS do not pay attention, nor give a shit about stuff like this. Remember this: texting and everything surrounding it is girl territory... we DO NOT CARE.

[Dave31989]

mirroring is the greatest form of flattery. it's flirting. he likes you

[Asker]

So if I reply late and he reply late too.. he’s flirting xD?

[Dave31989]

yeah

[Asker]

So if guy reveals something about that I didn’t really directly ask hin , is it good sign? For example he posted a picture about him being in the forest. I asked him ” ’Are you in the forest?”
Then he was like ” yeah I’m in the forest. I was doing a long jog. I also like to take walks there. I recommend it”.

[Asker]

Something about himself*

[Dave31989]

i don't need your life story hun. he likes you

[Asker]

Tbh I’m not convinced that he liked me. I’ve been the one ho has mostly initiated conversations. Now we haven’t talked for 3 weeks! He doesn’t talk to me unless I text him first...

[Asker]

Who’s*

[Dave31989]

he likes you hun

[Asker]

Lol ur just saying that so I wouldn’t feel bad...

[Dave31989]

nope

[Asker]

by the way why are u sure that he likes me? Im just curious...

[Dave31989]

i just am sure, hun

[disgustingweebtrash]

Whats wrong with that

[Asker]

I don't know I was wondering is he doing that on purpose.