this guy I hung out with, made plans to come over on his day off to watch a movie and eat popcorn while drinking and I was down for it, and seemed chill. Then I got really drunk and was kind of in my feelings cause the last guy I watched a movie, we ending up having sex and he never talked to me again after that, and I wasn’t sure if he was gonna be like that. So I texted him what his intentions were, is he really trying to watch a movie or watch a “movie.” And he said he was definitely trying to watch a movie and to drink. Then I left it on read and was gonna respond when I was more awake. Anyway, like 2 hours later he said tbh he doesn’t really feel comfortable coming now and I just said why, you said you wanted to and he just left me on read and unfriended on Snapchat.. like wtf. Feel like I did something wrong. I kept on thinking maybe he wanted to hook up and didn’t think I did, or he thought I did and he didn’t want to. Either way, I wouldve been down to do whatever, like if he wanted to hook up, that’s fine and if he didn’t that’s fine also. can’t really think of anything else, as it took him 2 hours to change his mind and I haven’t really been able to work up the courage to ask him bc I see him around sometimes and it’s just awkward, I wish he would’ve just been up front and told me his intentions instead of saying “def trying to watch a movie and drink” like that doesn’t clarify anything.
Do you think he changed his mind bc he wanted to hook up and didn’t think I wanted to, or bc he thought I did and he didn’t want to or something else?
