Did he think that I just wanted to hook up because I agreed to hooking up and that that’s why he found someone else?

[Burgundydog21]

Since hooking up isn’t a commitment, he can do what he wants since I didn’t show that I liked him

[PeachyPie93]

Well if you weren't serious it could have been anything. He might of just liked the other girl better since they were more compatible or she was prettier. Guys don't really put too many thoughts onto girls they aren't dating.

[Burgundydog21]

He told me that I was pretty. He was probably more compatible with her.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah, that's good but saying your pretty doesn't really mean anything since most guys will tell any girl they are pretty if it gets them closer to inside your pants.

[Burgundydog21]

But he wouldn’t talk to me sexually before hooking up, he actually talked to me as if I was a human being. He wouldn’t tell me that I’m pretty to get inside my pants

[PeachyPie93]

Then why is he gone? Guys lie all the time, same as girls. No need to over think it he is with someone else.

[Burgundydog21]

Because he probably thought that I just wanted to hook up since I wouldn’t say much.

[PeachyPie93]

Well then yeah he probably chose someone else because he wanted something more or because you were barely saying anything.

[spartan55]

Right... so what's your question?

[spartan55]

Why would he think you wanted anything more than a hookup when you didn't say anything? Was he supposed to think otherwise?

[Burgundydog21]

I was too traumatized to show that I like him.

[spartan55]

Traumatized? From what?

[Burgundydog21]

I was sexually harassed by a guy that said that he knew I liked him that he just didn’t say anything.

[spartan55]

Your story is totally confusing.

[DrPepper12]

NSA sex has its advantages!!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he wanted something more serious.

[DJB72]

Probably.