Ok, The reason why he wanted to meet with you is that you guys are on a dating app, just because you are not an ONS that doesn't mean you don't qualify to date.
Now from him saying he is not the guy for you. It could be lots of things, remember he said he was also a rapper and that he rapped about sleeping with girls from tinder, therefore should already give you an understanding of the lifestyle he has. Him knowing that you are not into an ONS he knows you are not like the typical girls he meets. But can also mean that he is not the type of guy you might need or want from the experience he had with you on the first date. When he said anything can change with more time basically means that you can't really judge someone off one meeting, so he wanted to go are more dates to potentially see if that would change considering that he is having sex with girls off of tinder than he wants to see his options while still going on dates to see if he sees something change or until he can finally have sex with you. When he said don't expect anything he meant it as you guys were casually dating therefore it's not like you guys are in a relationship to be consistently checking up on when is the next dates.
Also, remember that you are on a dating app, everyone there is doing the same thing, looking for dates, etc. Therefore don't assume that you are the only one they are talking to, the same way he probably thinks you are talking to other guys as well. Personally, I think you did the right thing, it looks like he wasn't ready for commitment and wants to continue meeting random girls on Tinder while keeping you around which is not something you would like.
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Because when he met you he wasn't really feeling it.
The problem is where are your morals and standards? As long as people have premarital sex, they don't see the need to respect you. Tinder is a hookup app anyway. This guy wouldn't even cross my mind and would have been immediately blocked. I wouldn't be on that app anyway let alone a dating app. This guy doesn't care. Your problem is that you are being too passive. So he figures he can easily sleep with you. He wouldn't dare try that with me. He would be running curses and literally running. I don't play those games. You, however, have no boundaries and let guys walk over you, touch, etc. Don't let them do that.
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Maybe he was just curioushe want to kidnap then rape you
So he can change your mind and smash
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