Basically this guy I like and I are talking and we decided we will hook up soon. The day we were supposed to meet his friend died in a crash (its real because it was everywhere on the news) and then he was sad ofc. Now he basically talks dirty to me but whenever the idea of hooking up inrl is brought up he tells me to wait. Its been a week and he keeps stalling; he says he feels shame because his friend died but he does want me. He doesn't really text me and now im not sure if he likes me or if he's making excuses to not hook up? or is he genuinely upset? because I've experienced people close to me passing as well but i never did push others away or not hook up with my boyfriend. Can someone explain?
Why won't he hook up with me?
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the death of a friend can effect your sex drive, i know cause i had a friend die not too long ago and it lowers the sex drive, im not surprised, be patience and support him through his situation.
Aw Im trying to do that. He basically talks dirty and right after switches up and says he can't and that he should wait
well i recommend trying to talk to him and have him open up to you cause you won't find the answers here tbh
Thanks so much!!! :)))
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Is he a virgin?
Hmm I believe so
I've known a girl for 10 years. She's kind of my dream girl, and we like each other. She's not a virgin, and I am. She wants to "fuck" or whatever, but she has also said she's not ready for anything serious, since she just got out of one. I'm nervous that I'm just some lay to her, and I want my first time to be really special, so, im nervous to go do it
Aww it could be a similiar situation. Do you still talk dirty to her and stuff? Honestly he is verrryyy nervous around me too , he never knows what to say, and when i asked if he was a virgin he said “no i have gotten head before” which was weird to me.
Then he's not a virgin. Oral sex, is SEX
I don't talk to her dirty, never did
Maybe you want a relationship and wanna take things slow so you dont talk dirty right?
Right
Hmmmm yeah he told me he's scared of doing anything because he may fall in love and i actually dated his brother before which is a deal breaker. But after that conversation he kept trying to see me and he kept talking dirty.
Yeah, never date or fuck the family of ex's. You really shouldn't even be associating with them
Yeahhh I know, he's just really my type tho. and he said im “too sexy” for him to stay away
Well, you're staying away
I can't 😭😭😭 I wanna know why he's not sticking to his words thoooo
Because he likely knows he shouldn't.
You need to move on
Ahhh you are right