He said that he liked me, then asked me out, THEN CHANGED HIS MIND!

[Cutieduck97]

This younger guy likes (or liked) me. At first I just thought it was cute. Then one day when we were texting he asked me out. I wasn't sure so I said "Can you ask me again tomorrow morning right before school?". He said "sure I can't wait til tomorrow".

I thought about it and talked to my bff. I decided that I would say yes. The next morning I waited for him and he just sat with his friends. So I started talking to some of my friends too. I thought maybe he was just nervous. So I texted him that night and told him t that I thought about it, and said yes. Then he told me that he changed his mind and wants to be single. At first I wasn't too upset but I really think I'm falling for him now! What do I do? And do you really think he just changed his mind, he was crushing on me for a month it so before he asked me out!

[Natalieee]

This guy doesn't seem to know what he wants. Are you sure you really want to be with him , or are you just feeling this way because now he doesn't want you. The guy seems a little immature , asking you out by text then not acknowledging the situation in person the next day then later by text saying he doesn't want it anymore and wants to be single. However if you really want to be with him , you need to explain how your feeling to him, who knows maybe he has changed his mind again? If he still says he does not want a relationship then unfortunately need to accept that.

[Cutieduck97]

Thanks! This is pretty much what I was expecting to hear. But now that I think about it he is a little immature, he asked my friend to ask me if I would slow dance with him at the Christmas Dance. I doubt that he would be much of a bf.

[Natalieee]

Yeah , don't sell yourself short...There's plenty of guys out there :) xo

[Cutieduck97]

Your right I'm desprate, but he was the first guy to ever like me so what was I supposed to think? :)