When a guy was a compulsive liar, yet he was loving and said I love you everyday, then he died suddenly, how do I know if he really loved me?

[sage2021]

It almost seemed as if he had an hidden agenda or a motive. But satiny it everyday for seven years? I just don't know if he said it to always have a place to stay or something.
Hours before he died he stood at my bedside and said I love you twice. I didn't respond. Then he asked if I loved him and I just said it's hard to love someone that tells at you all the time. He just walked away. We broke up the day before he died, but you never know when your loved one will be poisoned by Fentanyl. 💔
Sorry about the subject matter, this is my first time to grieve and I'm not so good at it. I appreciate your help with my struggle. ✌️

[ManOnFire]

Complicated situation, and very sorry for this loss. To lose someone literally a day after you broke up. I don't know if I would say he never loved you, maybe he just didn't show it in the best ways, and I think it has to count for something if he stayed for 7 years. But then, he was always yelling at you like you said and being a liar, that would definitely make you wonder, because true love wouldn't do those things. It's really hard to say. And if he was on fentanyl - and we don't know how long - that would make it even more complicated.

Again, very sorry you're going through this.

[sage2021]

@ManOnFire
Thanks so much for your words of kindness and trying to help me figure this out. I am so confused 😥. By the way, he didn't ever yell at me until the last few months. He suddenly changed and turned against me. I think it was because he and the lady that is my helper had a thing going on and wanted me out of the way so he would move out and be with her. She denies any of it. Said she only talked to him a few times. She is untruthful. He and I were fine until she came in the picture.
Anyway thanks again for being here for me. ✌️

[ManOnFire]

Thank you for MHO, and I wish you much healing @sage2021

[Likes2drive]

I would say he did love you very much and actions speak louder than words with that also but I guess when you broke up with him, he was probably an addict and felt the need to do drugs to get over how he felt after breaking up with you

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
You're probably right, as usual.
I've been sitting here looking through the photos on my phone of him, and us. He used to send me the Mocha and Milk cartoon lovers and he sent me a lot of them. They were so sweet!
Anyway, what did he expect, that I'd still let him stay here (his home) after he stole my money?
Well, thank you for getting through my rough day today.
It's 11:30 am and I've been sitting here crying since 2 am
Tired...

[Likes2drive]

Oh, well I hope I helped, it’s so sad though

[exitseven]

I have doubts about past relationships. We're they as real for her as they were for me? Would she really have married me if things did not get so messed up? I guess I tried to bury it in sme corner of my mind and concentrated in making my future life as good as possible

[FunkyMonkee]

Unless he showed it in other ways, like making sure you were "in good shape", Always ready to help, if you needed it, etc., I guess you'll never know. Did he have any friends? Ask them what kinds of things he said to them about you.

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee
My ole friend 🙂
Yes, he always took care of me except towards the end.. He only started acting different about two months before he died. He made me breakfast one day, scrambled eggs and sprinkles sugar on them and didn't make me new ones. That's when he would yell at me and turned against me. I'm sure the meth had something to do with the change in his behavior. He was doing it a lot.
He also acted like he was in the first stage of Dementia because they act the same way.

No matter what, for 7 years he said I love you to me. I was so confused and I still am.
Thanks for being here to try and figure this out with me. ✌️

[FunkyMonkee]

I can't really say anything about that because I know nothing about meth sand most other drugs of that ilk. I know SOME THINGS about grass, coke, heroine and acid because I've heard about the things they do to you, and I've experience nembutal, once (that just makes you really sleepy) but, I'd guess that it WAS the drugs that changed him, if he only just started taking them at that time.
No problem, hun! Glad I could help! Hope I did, at least a little.