Sometimes she acts excited and talkative. Then she's shy. Then she's cold and aloof. Then she's really nervous and clumsy. Anyone ever have a situation like this? thanks

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Sometimes she acts excited and talkative. Then she's shy. Then she's cold and aloof. Then she's really nervous and clumsy. Then she's excited and talkative again. And she's ALWAYS staring at me. She either holds it and and after a few secs she gives me a big shy smile,blushes and says hi, or she'll quickly look away, and might turn back a second time and say hi.

Sometimes I kinda notice her following me in the cafeteria or standing near me to try and get my attention. Sometimes when I bumped into her she would smile at me and say "HEY!" Other times when she passes me by she would just look at the ground and give me this really tense look or just keep staring at the ground and mumble what I assume is a hi.

A few times I noticed when she's like that tho is that after I walk past her a huge smile creeps up on her face. And around every1 else she is very confident and outgoing person. After awhile she had been acting consistently hot rather than cold. So next time I ran into her and asked her if she wanted to get breakfast that Thursday

She then started acting really nervous and said she couldn't because she had a rash and had an appointment that morning to get it checked, and said maybe another time. I was pretty much horrified at that point so I just walked away and said yeah maybe some other time. Well felt pretty awkward after that but whenever I would see her she would still go on with the staring and would say hi though she was back to being awkward and tense.

A week later I was in school store and I was walking down an aisle and then she started walking down from the other end of it. She froze when she saw me and just started looking me up and down, up and down, for like a good 5- 10 seconds, idk. I went up to her to say hi and asked what she was doing, and she just turned away from me and started staring at some kind've candy bar on the shelf and mumbled something which I couldn't really hear, and then walked away.

I think she said something like "Oh I was just looking for *insert incoherent mumbling* but they don't have it...ill c you l8r" I saw her one more time and she gave me a shy smile again, and then it was summer, I didn't see her til the first semester of this year. This year she's been hot and cold again, infact much more so sometimes she would just outright act like a bitch, tho I think it was partially because she was doing hw at the time.

Ive tried texting her, but convos go nowhere. If I fb chat her, we'll have a pretty good convo for over an hour, but she never contacts me or writes on my wall even.

I know she really hated being single, and about a few weeks before Valentine's started dating this guy who looks likes he's on drugs, dresses like an asshole, and dropped out of college, and I think he might be addicted to drugs.Tried staying out of contact with her, but a few weeks ago she just walked up to me and started talking to me! And she was standing super close to me, and acing flirty...I don't understand this girl lol.
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oh yeah I didn't mention this but I'm pretty sure the rash was an excuse lol ns I kno.


and also altho we go to same college now I met her in my driving course and I asked for her number and she blushed and looked really happy and told me she would totally date me if she didn't already have a boyfriend, which she did, they had been dating for like a few years at that point but broke up l8r. would that really make her act like this now in college? that was long be4 what's been going on now
Sometimes she acts excited and talkative. Then she's shy. Then she's cold and aloof. Then she's really nervous and clumsy. Anyone ever have a situation like this? thanks
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