What do I tell my single and sad guy friend?

Question

Guy friend keeps complaining about how he can’t pull a girl and how nobody ever likes him... yet I know he has options. How do I respond to him when he tells me this. I want to help but I’m running out of things to say.

Answer 1

ohshee | 407 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Tell him the truth no girl wants to hear I can't,, so if he can't he needs to figure it out and fix it ,, tell him has he ever heard the expression you keep making that face your face is going to stay that way one day ,, well same with him if he doesn't change it he will be 50 doing the same thing. Oh and by the way it's 50/50 he's trying to make you feel bad to get in your pants the guy really needs to re invent himself

Answer 2

Lynx122 | 378 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

What do you mean you know he has options? Do you know girls who like him?

Ultimately it comes down to him and his mentality but I'm curious why your perceptions are so different.

Asker

10 d
he has mentioned a couple of girls of he's recently started snapchatting. They like him, and he's hung out with them on a few occasions, but he doesn't seem super keen on them. He comes across as if nobody wants him yet there are girls on his phone who prove otherwise. I guess its just because i feel he is very much dateable so i dont know why he has such a negative mindset.
Lynx122

10 d
Maybe he's just had bad experiences in the past.

Answer 3

Asker

he has mentioned a couple of girls of he's recently started snapchatting. They like him, and he's hung out with them on a few occasions, but he doesn't seem super keen on them. He comes across as if nobody wants him yet there are girls on his phone who prove otherwise. I guess its just because i feel he is very much dateable so i dont know why he has such a negative mindset.

Answer 4

Lynx122

Maybe he's just had bad experiences in the past.

Answer 5

iseekpinetrees | 96 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Dont feed into his bs. I had people like this in my life they're just depressed n not actively looking for a girlfriend.

Answer 6

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Smh.. tell him to work on his game

What do I tell my single and sad guy friend?

Answer 7

zomegagon

Xper 1

Okay... this is a situation where you need to tell a man to "man up" and get his game on.

#NotToxicMasculinity

Answer 8

Anonymous

Sounds like me, wish my friends would just tell me to grow a pair and stfu
you should tell him to stop being a bitch tho

Answer 9

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

agree with him, see what happens

Answer 10

Anonymous

He wants to fuck you.
He's just being a White Knight, Simp, Cuck and trying to get a pitty fuck.
Ignore the bastard.

What do I tell my single and sad guy friend?

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