My ex sent me another random selfie?

[sd1223]

Seriously what’s up guys? I woke up to another random selfie, not a nude or anything inappropriate but a well dressed pic of him. It was shared privately to me on Snapchat. We used that when we were together and to add context he broke up with me 3 weeks ago almost a month.

[Anonymous]

Seems like its working. If he wanted to forget you he would have not sent a pic. But it could also be accidental

[sd1223]

No on snap you have to pick who you want to send it to and this is his second time that he’s done that. I sent one back to him. This was something we did when we were together.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you still like him? Why is he your ex?

[sd1223]

Yes I still like him a lot. He broke up with me because of there things within himself that he wanted to work on. It was never really anything wrong with the relationship or that something was a dealbreaker for me or for him. I want us back together.

[Opinion Owner]

Talk to him about it

[sd1223]

I may do so, guess I want to see how else things go as time moves on.

[Kit_Kat88]

I think it's ok if you want to get back with him or stay friends if there are no feelings involved. What were his reasons for breaking up?

[sd1223]

Basically he had some stuff internal conflicts that he wanted to work on within himself. The breakup wasn’t bad, as in there’s wasn’t anything wrong with us, he had some stuff he wanted to work on.

[nachosaresexy]

Sounds like he still has feelings for you. Are y'all still communicating at all, other than the random selfies?

[sd1223]

Yes we do, lol he just started the selfie thing yesterday, we do text and talk aside from that so it’s not just pics. I think he still has feelings as well.

[nachosaresexy]

Hard to know for sure what's going through his mind of course, but sometimes guy get confused after a while in a relationship. I had a previous situation where I broke up with a girl I was dating, because I was feeling pressure that the relationship was going on too long and I didn't think it was the right fit long term and so I figured the longer I waited the harder it would to break it off... it created this stupid internal anxiety and pressure. But then a couple months after I broke up with her we ended up getting back together.

Again not sure what's going on in his mind but could be something at least somewhat similar to that.

[sd1223]

That could be it. There was nothing wrong with our relationship or with us per se. The reasons were because he had stuff going on within himself. It wasn’t a bad breakup. I want to get back together with him so I hope this keeps up and that’s what happens. I wrote him a really deep text two weeks ago and I wonder if this part of his way of showing me that he thought about what I said and is thinking about giving us another shot.

[nachosaresexy]

Yeah that makes sense. Logically there's no reason for him to be reaching out to you like that unless he still has some level of interest... doesn't mean he'll want to jump straight back into relationship status, but seems like he's definitely leaving that door open.

[nachosaresexy]

I have a question on a different relationship topic. If you don't mind can I message you to try to explain?

[sd1223]

Yeah I guess with time I’ll be able to tell. I hope we end up back together. He was the best thing to happen to me. I’m crazy about him.

Off topic but I love your user name and yes you can message me. Always happy to help someone if I can!

[nachosaresexy]

It's saying you only allow messages from followers. I think you have to give me a follow first?

[sd1223]

That’s right I do have mine set to this! Sure I’ll follow you! Hang on!

[sd1223]

You have to follow me back as well though!

[jordnaus]

Only thing to do is block him. Obviously doesn't really respect boundaries at this point.

[sd1223]

There were no boundaries set up to begin with. He still wanted us to be friends. I could see if I told him not to talk to me and he did anyway. Plus sending a selfie doesn’t warrant getting blocked, that’s a bit harsh. Plus I want to get back with him and I feel like I’m getting on the right track.

[jordnaus]

Okay well don't take my advice then i was just going off of what little information i had.

[sd1223]

Understandable

[sd1223]

I didn’t want to write a wall of text, just wanted to get straight to the point of my question.

[jordnaus]

Take your own advice and do what feels right to you. If it bothers you tell him if not just deal with it he's obviously thinking about you and that's a nice thing.

[sd1223]

It is! I like that he’s thinking about me! I think about him a lot.

[Iron_Man]

What’s the purpose of the website anyway to send nude pictures to each other all the time?

[sd1223]

You can post stories, text, send pics to people. Just another social media app.

[sd1223]

But some people do use it for that.

[Iron_Man]

I see

[JosyJosy]

Just block him everywhere

[sd1223]

Nah he hasn’t done anything to me other than break up with me and the break up wasn’t bad. If I have a chance to get to be with him again then I want to have that. I’m crazy about this man lol.

[JosyJosy]

I see..