Gemini man giving me mixed signals - Taurus woman?

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I met this gemini man at my gym we started flirting and eventually asked me on a date, we had so much fun and the date ended with a kiss. He didn't contact me for almost 2 weeks but I kept bumping into him at the gym, he then asked me on a second date. We had so much fun we even got a little more into second base after a whole day of fun out. I didn't hear from him for another two weeks! So I asked him on a date last minute and he was happy to come along, to which he then confessed he really liked me a lot and told me he would get jealous at this point to see me flirt with someone else. After that, GHOSTED, pretty much. I called him to check on him , we had a good conversation. I waited to hear from him.. nothing, I bump into him at the gym and he always comes up and talks to me first like nothing is happening! It's now going on a third week since he said he really liked me a lot and he hasn't asked me out again! I text him very rarely maybe once a week and he seems very happy to hear from me but he doesn't initiate contact only when he sees me at the gym? Why would he not ask me out again right after saying he likes me? Also I do know he found out he's dad is dying right after our first date. So I can empathise with him. Any advice? Does he sound interested or just playing me?
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Is it appropriate to ask about he's behaviour? or shall i just let it be?
I thought men generally hate seriousness too early?
Gemini man giving me mixed signals - Taurus woman?
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