So I’ve been dating a Gemini Man for a month and I’m a cancer woman. I already know we aren’t the best match bc i can be emotional and he can be distant. But i like him.
We met and started texting and FaceTiming a lot. We had really good chemistry and everything. One time we were texting and he suggested i come over before i went out to a Super Bowl party and i went over and we chilled for a bit. We had good conversation in person and we played a few games and i left. The following weekend we went out to eat and had a few drinks. We went back to his place and watched a movie and continued to drink. One thing led to another and we got intimate. I left first thing in the morning bc i didn’t know how to feel and i wanted to give him his space. He asked me to text him when i got home but i blew him off. He texted me to make sure i was okay but i blew him off again and he asked why i was avoiding him. I told him i wanted to give him space. He called me a few hours later and told me that he liked me and had a great time. He told me a bit more about himself, as far as his family, which is a touchy subject for him. After that we still had great conversation but one day out of the blue i just kinda got a feeling that i should lay low and i asked him and he said it was okay. A few days later of texting i still kinda felt a distance. I drunked texted him. (Ugh i know) & i told him about the one sided interest i was feeling and that if he wanted a one night stand he should’ve been upfront. He said that it isn’t a one night stand type of situation and he just needed to figure out what he wanted. We didn’t communicate for a week. I reached out to him. We started talking like normal, even sexted once or twice. But a few days later he started to become distant again. But i don’t understand bc he still watches my Snapchat and instagram even know he didn’t respond to my last text which was 3 days ago.
I just wanted to know if anyone could shed some light?
We met and started texting and FaceTiming a lot. We had really good chemistry and everything. One time we were texting and he suggested i come over before i went out to a Super Bowl party and i went over and we chilled for a bit. We had good conversation in person and we played a few games and i left. The following weekend we went out to eat and had a few drinks. We went back to his place and watched a movie and continued to drink. One thing led to another and we got intimate. I left first thing in the morning bc i didn’t know how to feel and i wanted to give him his space. He asked me to text him when i got home but i blew him off. He texted me to make sure i was okay but i blew him off again and he asked why i was avoiding him. I told him i wanted to give him space. He called me a few hours later and told me that he liked me and had a great time. He told me a bit more about himself, as far as his family, which is a touchy subject for him. After that we still had great conversation but one day out of the blue i just kinda got a feeling that i should lay low and i asked him and he said it was okay. A few days later of texting i still kinda felt a distance. I drunked texted him. (Ugh i know) & i told him about the one sided interest i was feeling and that if he wanted a one night stand he should’ve been upfront. He said that it isn’t a one night stand type of situation and he just needed to figure out what he wanted. We didn’t communicate for a week. I reached out to him. We started talking like normal, even sexted once or twice. But a few days later he started to become distant again. But i don’t understand bc he still watches my Snapchat and instagram even know he didn’t respond to my last text which was 3 days ago.
I just wanted to know if anyone could shed some light?
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