Why would a guy randomly offer to go down on me?

[Anonymous]

Through work I connected with an agency to do workshops for my clients. The rep came over to see the space and discuss the workshop. He was pretty chill and we kept in slight touch after the workshop. We were very professional with a few jokes here and there. In his recent email he gave me his number and told me to text him. I did and convo started out great and then he blurted out “I want to get to know you and eat you out... im not even looking for sex or reciprocation”.. umm what the heck. Never saw this convo going in this direction at all.

And because we previously chatted about where in the city we live the guy drove to my intersection. After he blurted out what he wants he took a video of him being in my area and wheres my address so he can taste me. Apparently he was texting and driving, meanwhile I thought he was at home.

I've stopped talking to him. But this has left me freaked out, creeped out and wondering
WHO DOES THAT?

[Melvinb6521]

When guys make offers like that, it’s only to girls that are really really cute or attractive.


But pulling up to your intersection is weird and a bad look. I would advise to stay away from him. Maybe have a big strong looking man (like myself, 6+ feet tall, 200+ lbs 💪🏽😁) shoo him off for you. He will probably be more afraid to come back if he thinks you aren’t alone, and these types fold in the presence of an alpha male because they know they are wrong.
Perhaps a brother, cousin, or neighbor can assist

[Asker]

Oh I am definable staying away from him. I am creeped out. I’ll also fedex you here to shoo him away. He’s like five foot five... you’re height alone would send him running 😁...

But I sense due to the holidays it would take a while to ship you so I will probably have to recruit a relative or my neighbor.

[Melvinb6521]

Haha don’t count me out yet 😉 ups does overnight too. All I need is a home cooked meal and a new friend in my corner as well 😁😂

[Asker]

Hahaha... shoot all I had to do was provide a good ole home cooked meal in exchange for security? UPS!!! Hurry up!! 😁😁😁
Thanks for helping a girl to get a little laugh on... cause I've been freaked out

[Melvinb6521]

Laughter cures most pains. I’d love to stay in touch with you though. You seem like a truly good hearted woman, and you can’t have too many good hearted friends in your life. Send me a follow and let’s stay in touch 😁

[Asker]

Thank you for your words. I really try to just be a good natured woman. Just sucks when I get encounters like these. It’s nice to know there are still kind, sane, funny people still on the planet :)

[Melvinb6521]

We gotta stick together because there’s not a lot of us left sweetheart. Send me a follow and let’s do that. I’d love to hear more from you in the future.

[pepperhicks]

The first time when he mentioned it out of the blue was way too forward. Even giving him some benefit of the doubt, like his is just awkward or lacks social skills, that is creepy.
The idea of him taking video near your home is stalker-type behavior. Avoid, do not engage further.

[Asker]

Trust me I am in full avoid mode.
Thank you for your insight

[virgin20]

Wow that's weird.
I mean it's nice that he wasn't looking for anything back he just wanted to please you but I wouldn't do that. It's just too forward and you aren't comfortable with that.
He may just really think you're attractive or hasn't done that in a while and wants to do it again with you

[R3DthatDude]

Make sure you lock your windows and doors everyday, how did he even find your address?

[Asker]

He doesn’t have my address. In the beginning we were discussing where in our city we live. So they said oh im around this area and I was like yea im close to this area... but even if you say an intersection the person could live anywhere... he remembered the area I was in and drove there... and then said he's driving around and waiting for me to give my exact address... which is all very creepy within itself

[morganlove]

You might want to ask around or get some small cameras to avoid the stalker issue. Blurting that out in the middle of a normal conversation is a boy in puberty move. Be safe

[spartan55]

Lol, wow what a fucking weirdo. I can't explain his thought process for you, only that it is really fucking weird.

[Asker]

Massively weird!! -_-

[devil_8888]

Way too forward... but it’s totally weird!!

[Fuentes]

Tons of people do

[Anonymous]

Bull shit troll