Why would a guy intentionally try to get under the skin with me?

[Anonymous]

There are days where he will get under my skin what’s the reason behind it honestly

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes immature people like to provoke reactions out of others. This is one of those times when the simplest explanation is probably the best.

[BadApple69]

He is immature. End of story.

[Asker]

We talking about a mature guy in his 30s

[BadApple69]

Age does not mean maturity. I have dealt with 50 year olds who are very immature. To do what he is doing is like the school child who picks on a girl because he likes her…. But doesn’t know how to say it or show it.
Can you tell me what it is that he has done?

[Asker]

Basically be picking on me lately

[Asker]

Yet he asked for a piece of gum later today and even thanked me like hellooooo?

[BadApple69]

That’s what I’m saying. It’s as if he likes you but doesn’t know what to say so he picks on you. This is what boys do in 6th grade.
To your knowledge has he had a girlfriend?

[BadApple69]

He might just be REALLY socially awkward.

[Asker]

Married

[BadApple69]

Ok that surprised me…. Still guys don’t pay attention to a girl unless they are interested. He is a strange bird.
Why don’t you just confront him and ask why?

[Asker]

Yes I don't know I doubt it’s bc he likes me after all he is a married man

[Asker]

He was trying to see my reaction earlier today by doing something again bc someone else confronted me about it that he was just joking earlier to see how I will react

[BadApple69]

Married or not he is interested. Maybe he just wants something on the side.

[Asker]

I don't know I’ve been dealing with him for 2 years now