He just throws remarks out there in groupchats and things in reply to me designed to bait or provoke or tease. He used to stare at me a lot and then he got a girlfriend who’s in the same circle and he still stares a lot at me when we’re in the same space. Even in front of her and jokingly said that “dating her was a white lie” and winked at me in front of her at that! But he never messages and ultimately he is dating her. Why is he behaving this way? I’m really infatuated with him. Please help.
Why does this guy try to get under my skin?
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It's possible that this guy is trying to get under your skin because he enjoys the attention and likes the power dynamic of being able to provoke a reaction from you. It's also possible that he may be attracted to you and is using teasing and provocative behavior as a way to mask his feelings or to test the waters of your interest in him.
However, it's important to remember that his behavior is not respectful or considerate of your feelings, especially if you feel uncomfortable or upset by his remarks and actions. It's important to communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly to him, and to prioritize your own emotional well-being and self-respect.
If you are infatuated with him, it may be helpful to take a step back and reflect on your own feelings and priorities. It's important to approach any potential relationship with caution and to prioritize your own needs and boundaries, especially given the dynamic of him currently dating someone else in your social circle.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with and how you want to approach the situation. It may be helpful to seek support from a trusted friend or counselor during this time, and to take time to reflect on your own feelings and priorities in the situation.
He probably likes you.. but I don't get why he is dating the other girl...
He thinks he's getting under your skin.
Why does he want to do that