Hi. This is gonna be a long one, but please read this. So, I'm taking driving lessons with a male instructor. I was actually at first taking lessons with his wife, but now it is with him. I'm 18 and he's about 40. The thing is, I noticed this weird behaviour. It all started when he sent me a friend request on facebook. Then, he started watching my stories. Oftentimes, he will take my hand and put it on manual, changing the speeds, when he makes a joke he will punch me in the arm, when he wants the show me something, for ex. how gently to use the brake, he would show it on my hand/arm , touch me to demonstrate, maybe even "pet" a few times. When I do parking, he will lean towards me a lot, even though there's no need, he has driving instructord rearview mirror. Not only that, he asks me a lot about personal life, when I told him I broke up recently, he started asking me about my ex, how old is he, what's he doing, where he lives, and his last name! Sometimes, after few days of pause, he asks me "did you miss me?" . He calls me by a nickname even, and also a "doll". He always tells me that he will protect me, that he won't let anyone *uck with me, etc. That he has weakness towards female "children" because he also has a daughter... When we text to arrange term, he sometimes makes some jokes too... and a lot of other things, that are also uncomfortable. My point is, is all of this normal? Is he just too friendly or there's something more? I mean, his wife is also my driving instructor!
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He is married and acting inappropriately. He is your instructor, and is not acting like one. I get it, your young and an older guy hitting on you may seem neat but it's wrong. I feel sorry for his wife, he's flirting with you. I hope your not paying him for driving instructions. Good luck.
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You must really suck at driving considering considering you've reposted this a few times. Might be time to just buy a bus pass.
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Sounds like you have an admirer!
Must be awkward!
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