Why do women not get unsatisfied with loneliness but men do?

[internetguy1]

Why do women never get upset with loneliness and can just have fun in other ways, but men desperately do?

[MrOracle]

Dude, you need to learn and accept this truth about life:

MOST women do NOT want casual sex - UNLESS the guy is a 9.5+ out of 10, which isn't me and probably isn't you. Nothing you do is going to change this reality, so you need to adjust your expectations.

If you want sex, you need to either be willing to be in a relationship with her, with all of the responsibilities that come with that, OR, you're going to need to improve your own desirability (in all of the stereotypical ways: income, your own place to live, a decent car, nicer clothes, hitting the gym, personality, etc.) so you can attract a few women out of the much smaller group who are open to casual sex, OR you're going to have to have sex with prostitutes and pay as you go.

If you aren't born lucky and didn't have George Clooney or John Stamos-type good looks, then you need to get realistic, and accept that you simply aren't going to be able to have endless casual sex with a bunch of different attractive women - only 1 in 10 million guys live like that. Accept that, and instead of complaining about it, make adjustments. Learn how to get at least SOME of what you want, rather than complain and get NONE of what you want because you think you deserve to have it ALL.

[internetguy1]

i don't believe I deserve to have it all, no I did not say that.

I mean haha life is full of anxiety and panic attacks and lack of adventure, i don't know WHY women don't like to have casual sex in order to ease their boredom! They are simply human of flesh blood bone heart lung brain and soul the ONLY difference between woman and men is that woman has a vagina rather than penis, I guess that makes ALL the difference, right? HAHA!

[internetguy1]

I mean lol maybe if I put a woman on DMT, she'll be more open to casual sex, (that is not date rape, because DMT is not a normal drug it is a divine spiritual drug that makes you open to everything!)

[MrOracle]

Here's what you aren't getting: most women get DEEPLY ATTACHED when they have sex, so even if they went into it thinking "this is just casual sex for fun", when it's over, their brain is flooded with hormones, and now they have THE FEELS, and when they realize that you don't have the feels, they are crushed and hurt and sad. This is not fun for them.

Imagine if every time you ate ice cream, a professional boxer punched you in the face a couple of times. No matter how much you liked ice cream, you'd quickly learn to avoid eating it, because those face punches weren't worth it. That's kind of like what women deal with having casual sex. It's not so much the sex that's the problem, it's the aftermath of feelings that they have and you don't.

[internetguy1]

thanks for answering dude, but despite all the evolutionary-talk, for our damn personal lives, sex is simply a way of making something happen, because our brain likes to have things happen to it and sex is the most primitive desire.

I mean yeah women are exactly the same as men except for ONE organ. Dunno why they don't think like me (us) - "Jeez, there's nothing fun to do and I can't go out, I need some stimulation - maybe I just need a body to rub against me and I'll feel that something happened!".
Like somehow having a vagina rather than a penis immediately alters your entire BRAIN lol. Which is odd, because I never knew that the brain changes so much because of something that doesn't even touch it!

Thanks.

[MrOracle]

Men and women's brains ARE different, as are our hormones and other things. You say you "dunno why they don't think like you", despite me explaining why. Women are NOT men, and men are NOT women. We're DIFFERENT. We evolved to have different instincts and priorities.

The good news for you is that there ARE *some* women who are down for casual sex - they're the exceptions to the rule, but they exist. The bad news is that they're in high demand, and they know it, so if they're young and good-looking, they have a ton of market power, and can choose to only sleep with hot guys Of course, if they're less young and less hot, or if they're drunks or have other issues, then they're much easier to get - but that's a whole other conversation.

[internetguy1]

yeah women are a mystery - they also of course want to monetize their p*ssy and body. Society allows them to, it is considered normal.
Some women on reddit say they are into BDSM, so we chat. But after other discussions, once I bring up video sexting elsewhere - they say no i am not into that and leave.

i mean haha maybe you are right, sex isn't even "needed", maybe God or something thinks non-cool men don't deserve it LOL. And also that the struggle to find it makes it more meaningful.
I suppose also that men are taught that it is NORMAL to just f*ck anything that moves - so men are not choosy and don't hate and reject lame women.
WOMEN see men are PEOPLE - they want a companion they LIKE as a PERSON.
MEN despite knowing that women are merely "people with vaginas" and are not even that interesting and many are extremely stupid and mean and disloyal - are TAUGHT to just f*ck anything that moves so they many simply have a "I want a good female body to rub against I don't care who the hell she is or what the hell she thinks inside her head so long as she's ok-looking". attitude (Although of course if she's fat and lame even men will say no no).

i see that the lady i chatted with on this site seems to be confusing and alienating - as always. She's a virgin herself too - although was quite nice for chatting with me.
Women are BIZARRE - despite being human.
All because of ONE organ haha.

[djmzes]

Simple

Women and men are different. Proven by medical science, women have more sexual need and higher than men, but they have a veil of dignity and shyness that protects them from acting upon it. That why they can live alone. While in a man, it is low but the shyness wall is smaller, so they have least power to control.

[btbc92]

Women have been suffering for nearly forever man. We learn to adapt. Nowadays men are forced to adapt and cope without a woman because unlike men, women don't need sex. We need emotional bonds and feelings. We can easily get that because most people desire to connect emotionally, especially other women. For men, you have a desire to either procreate or just have sex. Then get mad when we don't want the same or need the same. If we do, then your double angry when we have more opportunities for sex, though that doesn't usually happen. But that you want the perks of being a man with the benefits of a woman. That's why. We do get unsatisfied with loneliness. But it's not because we don't have a man. But that men do things that make us unhappy.

[internetguy1]

Thanks for answering, but overall I am right. A woman can spend a month of quarantine without sex or even friends. A man cannot. And you are right that we get mad when women do not want sex or need sex. It is just the way it is. And oh well. No idea, why God made it like this though. If even exists.

"Perks" of being a man? Like what? Nothing. There is nothing good about being a man other than being un-desired and un-needed by women/

If men vanished off the planet, women wouldn't care, right? On the other hand if women vanished off the planet, men WOULD be REALLY upset.

[btbc92]

That is just not true. You don't really need sex. It is a desire everybody is born with unless circumstances or disease affects them. But not everybody wants sex. That is the difference. Men overall, at least the majority of you don't care where the sex comes from. But many of you lack love, patience, understanding, and many other things that make a woman want to connect with a man. Love isn't born of sex. Sex is from the love you have with and for another woman. Otherwise, sex, in the end, is just sex. A woman cannot have just sex. She needs more. She would rather have nothing instead of pain, getting sick with an STD, a child she can't take care of by herself, or even a stigma where she can never get a guy to want her or marry her. Let alone help raise a child that isn't biologically his. That is why God had said sex is only for MARRIAGE. And that marriage is between a man and a woman. That means, originally, once you have sex, your basically married. But because "civil" marriage, in general, was with much fornication and adultery, it had to be with 1 man with 1 woman and 1 woman with 1 man. And that is usually if called to marriage. Back then you have people in villages, and such, as is now in Africa, etc that have dowries and such to help mitigate that. Because it is an exchange for SOMETHING. You cannot be selfish. And people due to sin nature have become just that. And it pollutes the earth as it's people and nature and all living things both physically and spiritually.

[btbc92]

No. The issue with you is your selfishness. Your sexually selfish, you want and expect a woman just BECAUSE we have a 'hole' for you to poke in. Then when a baby comes, problems come, you run or panic and get immature. We do care if men leave because we love men. But we HATE what you DO to us, but you get upset? Look at yourselves before you judge a woman.

[btbc92]

The perks you got is this:

1. The freedom to go places. Back in ancient times and so, a woman was NOT ALLOWED to go anywhere. Unless you were old enough to own things depending on your culture, religion, etc. women weren't allowed to own, she had no say on who to marry, she couldn't an education, some were forced to marry very young, to men much older than you even. Some as old as 70 and more. And she can be only 13 - 16, and be forced to marry a man in his 30s and up. You would be considered too young because you had nothing to show or stability, unless you came from a rich family, and have a status like the ancient Romans and Greeks. If you were not like the heroes or so like Greek and Roman myths, or aristocrats you didn't have the daughter. Your race, nationality, status, mattered. A woman no matter what had no say. If anything unless she is just like her family, she wants love and to be loved if marriage, a man, and family are what she wants. If she was defiled a man wouldn't want her. She would be sent to a monastery or where she could be of use or prostitution. At least a male slave depending may survive. A woman is either at risk of rape or a sex slave, etc, is worse. A man is beaten unless raped. A woman can get the whole thing. A man can risk death. A woman may desire death than constant torture.

[btbc92]

See in this world. A man's worth is seen by what he can provide, and a woman's worth is seen and based on what she can DO. You do not have to do much. A man is more prized because he's less handling. A woman is much handling because she has to be molded, shaped, and primed.

God called for servitude, not slavery.

2. You make more than a woman. Even though women now have a bit more rights than decades and even eons ago. The system is still rigged. If women were treated more right and love and cherished as God commanded. I personally believe that feminism would have never happened. satan wouldn't have used it to trick women and deceive just like men wouldn't be deceived to use and abuse women. Now the roles are in reverse. It is now you men who don't feel worthy, desired, wanted, or loved. That is the pain women felt forever. While some may have had better lives than others, some don't have that luxury.

Women desire sex just as much as men do. But it's of the flesh that humans have desired more than true fulfillment if you can't have that physically. A kiss, a hug, holding hands, etc is just as much sex as is vaginal-penile intercourse is. Your exchanging something. But what is the point of having it if we're going to die because of it?

[internetguy1]

No I am not sexually selfish, but I am only 21 and the problem is is that it is IMPOSSIBLE to find a woman over this 5 week break because there are NOT even any women on the internet that want to connect with me. And no I do not want to use dating sites because 1) Many of them are messy and need payment, 2) I do not want to give private info like phone number.

No idea why though. It is surprising that it is this difficult, because there are millions of women in the united states and everyone has internet access.
No idea what women do when bored though. Like I mean this MATERIAL realm is quite limited in it's nature. Without SEX and PSYCHEDLIC DRUGS, there isn't much other than hedonism, food, and materialism. And I do know that women get horny, but apparently they don't care.
I do wonder what young women do over the break, especially during covid.

[internetguy1]

See friend, I do not even want to immediately have sex with a woman, just to find some woman to talk to. At least online. And God will not even give me that, if he even exists. Women simply do not want to talk to men. Their happiness is not at all affected by it. They are content with not having men. Dunno. Maybe it IS because women are repressed sexually and taught that they are morons and objects if they show themselves sexually open without shame. I can imagine how idiotic it would be if my mom found out my sister was some online slut LOL.(she is not but hypothetically).

[btbc92]

Buddy. Here is your problem:

1. "No I am not sexually selfish, but I am only 21 and the problem is is that it is IMPOSSIBLE to find a woman over this 5 week break because there are NOT even any women on the internet that want to connect with me." Buddy. Question. What do you need US for? There are millions of women to befriend with. But you're hunting us down in 5 weeks. And then this is mainly only after the internet? This is the very thing I am talking about. You say you not sexually selfish and yet you are. You seeking a woman for sex, but say you want a connection. I bet if I say I want to be your friend and ONLY your friend, you'll scream bloody murder. You know why? You can't really HANDLE INNOCENCE! You can't handle purity, you can't handle LOVE. You'll only connect if sex is present. That's why you have a PROBLEM. There are PLENTY of women AROUND YOU. There are plenty of men around me. But not every man wants a friendship with me like other women. That's LIFE. But you're seeking a sexual relationship. The problem here is this. For that sector, if you're not even sexually attractive most women would not bother. I'm sorry. If you nothing to offer, your appealing, you smell or look good, act good, are closed off, etc, most people would not bother. Been there, done that. That is how this world works.

[btbc92]

"See friend, I do not even want to immediately have sex with a woman, just to find some woman to talk to. At least online." What difference does it make if that is how you see and treat sex. You treat sex like a commodity. But you forget sex is part of YOU and part of HER. Just because I am a virgin and never dated or isn't married. That doesn't mean I go around treating sex like a plaything. Because it isn't. Sex is not meant to be dirty and impure. It's meant to be an expression of LOVE. It's meant to be PRIVATE. And between a woman and a man who are married, who love each other and desire a family, bond, union, and PARTNERSHIP BOTH in mind, body soul, and spirit. For it is pleasing to God when the two join. It is NOT just meant for pleasure and procreation physically ALONE. But oneness in love. How you people are being taught about sex is that it is just a way to get pleasure and sexual fulfillment, and a need for the sake of sexual gratification. Do you know that most women who that route suffer worse than those who love getting used and seen like dogs? There is a difference. Your taught WRONG about sex, love, and women.

[btbc92]

"And God will not even give me that, if he even exists. Women simply do not want to talk to men. Their happiness is not at all affected by it." God exist, but he is NOT going to give you a woman just because you want one. He knows your heart. And if you have bad intent, which you do, he will not give you somebody for you to use, abuse and God forbid kill. If you think women simply don't want to talk to men then your crazy. I'm talking to you, right? But I am not 'talking' to you just to have sex and hop in bed. I'm treating you like a human being. I wouldn't be surprised that the moment a woman let alone a female speaks to you, your not thinking about the girl. Your thinking about when you're going to get laid and if and when she is ever interested. A woman who wants a relationship is NOT going to want a man like you. It's common sense. Unless she is sexually inclined, she'll hop from you to other men if she is not sexually satisfied. Our happiness is very much affected by that. We had to learn to pretend and fake to not care before a man become the death of us. Look up how many crazy men kill their girlfriends, wives, or baby mamas. Or women who went crazy, in jail, locked up in a mental house, or dead. Stop thinking only about yourself.

[btbc92]

"They are content with not having men. Dunno." That is from woman to woman. Women like me can be content without it. Some people like my friends cannot. They need companionship. They need a sexual bond, but they want LOVE from a man and man who is WILLING to provide that. Money and more. They can have sex, but sex will be MISERABLE if there is no love and appreciation. There is a SOUL component to it for women. And women need attachment. The more women experience bad experiences, whether sexually, or emotionally like myself, it brings unhappiness, suffering, and misery. A woman grows to hate sex, withdraw and lose their desire. If it's not fixed they either shut down or have an urge to cheat. So to avoid that, they reconciliation and counseling. If neither is offered, the next step is either seek divorce and or break up if unmarried. They will move ON, or you're going to have a sexless marriage.

[btbc92]

"Maybe it IS because women are repressed sexually and taught that they are morons and objects if they show themselves sexually open without shame. I can imagine how idiotic it would be if my mom found out my sister was some online slut LOL.(she is not but hypothetically)." Dude, you need to STOP. A woman is supposed to protect herself sexually. She is NOT to be displaying herself in a disrespectful manner. That is not being sexually open that is being sexually deviant. And such women often are like that in public because they don't CARE. Many if some love being treated like whores and dogs. That's why they can cheat without remorse! Do you want those women? Go get them. Then when they use you to abuse you, talk about how they had better and bigger penises, etc, do NOT COMPLAIN. WHINING talking about how you wish you had a decent woman. Don't ask for a decent woman when you're not being a decent man. A decent woman will NOT look your way. An if a woman, once again is not sexually wanting you, you'll get rejected anyway. THINK about your attitudes about sex and women and how you choose to speak and carry yourself. That's why you lonely don't have a woman. It's a SELF problem. Not a woman problem. If you can't control yourself that is your problem. If you can't contain find a marriage partner. But as long as you like that, you're sounding like your driving women away from you.

[internetguy1]

Ok, upon reading this posts friend I see that you were raised Christian, am I correct?
Well I mean I was raised without a religion, although I do have theistic leanings (agnostic). I do not see why women cannot be more sexually open, I guess you were talk these things about love and meaning I guess.

Dunno, I am 6'0'' tall and have been called good looking, although I do wonder how women view sex though. Like the word sex is always there and is a biological urge, I do wonder what women think of the word...
Thanks for chatting friend :)

[btbc92]

This is your PROBLEM. Religion has 0 to do with it. You treat women like sex toys! I told you how a woman feels and thinks and wants. This is what we WANT. If you want to use religion or whatever to cover up your insecurity about needing to give and sacrifice, that's why you don't have one. If you expect again, for a woman to be sexually open, then why are you still a virgin not laid? You would be having 100s of women by now. You know why? You don't know what you really want but sex. There are two types of women like there are two types of men. Those who desire sex for the hell of it. Those who desire a real and true relationship. Which are you? Just because I am Christian that doesn't mean I am religious. Guys with your attitude are why I am happy I am single and never bothered. I see it is not because a woman doesn't want to connect with you. You don't want to connect with a woman. You want to connect with sex. Because in the end, all you want is sex. Plenty out there. I don't see why you're upset about it.

[btbc92]

No, you just lack common sense. I have met plenty and is friends with plenty of men, even those who claim religion and they don't act like you. There are plenty of Christian men who do behave like you. That's why some of them can't keep a girlfriend or their wives. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. Remember that. There are rules, structure, and order. Doesn't matter what religion, belief system, or whatever you like. As long as your a human being, you have rules to follow. Women are sexually open. And it's why you're single. Because now women don't see the point of having a man if sex is easy to get just because your a woman.

[internetguy1]

Well, friend that is the problem. It is normal for women to just say that it is my problem... I am NOT hideous looking at all, in fact I am good-looking. Dunno life happens so quickly, I was only 13(child) and now I am 21. Guess I just got unlucky these years? Didn't even try in high school, everyone just went to school and went home.

Sometimes I wonder if women are attracted to men at all. Or if they are even supposed to be. Whatever what that means. Life is full of issues. And imperfections. Maybe modern society has made everything disastrous, including dating and sex. The world is too huge and dangerous these days.

[btbc92]

No, that is not normal. You just want sex. You don't a woman. You think your looks, your body, and your ability to have sex is all that matters. It doesn't. Women to some degree had to relearn how to love themselves again. But many do it in destructive patterns now. If women were not attracted to men we wouldn't be invested in getting to know you and love you. You think sex is everything in the world. It's not. You doubt a woman's attraction she will leave you for another man. Or she will use you for sex and still hop to another man.

[btbc92]

It is normal to desire sex. But you treat sex like it's a separate being without a human in it. Sex is power too. It's energy. God designed it to be that way. But that it's mostly created through physical acts. You desire sex to be separate on its own. But you don't desire a woman. You desire only what we can give. Which is the power. But you again just want sex for the sake of it. And it leaves you very unsatisfied and lonely. I have married friends and those with families. Even they can say you just value sex more than you value another human being. Your looks have 0 to do with it, but that you lack love for yourself, have some form of self-hatred and now you don't want love either.

[btbc92]

It's not just a relationship problem. You have a social problem.

[internetguy1]

Friend I did not really understand your last sentence.
Also no I do not treat women as sex toys, but don't women agree with me that this material realm is LIMITED in it's nature other than sex and sexual pleasure? Which is why people focus so much on sex, it's not like you can have HUGE adventures in life, and if you do, it is often dangerous. Nobody likes unsafety, people want to be happy.
And women buy tons of sex toys, that I am certain. So they want sex toys, but are surprised that men view them (in a way) as sex toys? Well I mean they dress with heels and makeup too!
No, I do not view women as sex toys, but there is only so much to talk about and connect over before it becomes meaningless outside of sex.
Isn't the only things that you can really do in this non-spiritual realm, DMT drugs and sex?
I mean, what do young women do when bored anyways? Apparently they do NOT have any interest in men, and do not consider men, to be something that can ease boredom or something they DESIRE. Women age, get sick, and suffer anxiety too. But apparently unlike men, they do NOT consider SEX to be the ONLY thing you can do in life. Like most men would agree that pretty much the immediate thing there is to do in life is have sex.

Dunno what it feels like to be a woman. Am not one after all.

[btbc92]

I meant exactly what I said. I don't know if your a foreigner or not. But I meant what I had said. You have a relationship problem, where you don't know how to bond with people. But you also have a social problem, where you don't take cues about how your behavior affects other people. Otherwise, you wouldn't have that much of an issue.

"Also no I do not treat women as sex toys, but don't women agree with me that this material realm is LIMITED in it's nature other than sex and sexual pleasure?" No. Because that is how you see it in your world. And yes, you do. Because you wouldn't say that I grew up Christian and how you're not religious. Because that is just common sense, and you think it's religious. Do you think even if I wasn't Christian that I would want and desire a man who thinks with your mentality? No. You don't have to have all of these things. But all you really want is mainly pleasure. It's only limited because you don't use it right. People will abuse everything in this world because many of them are confused, broken, and lost. That's why the world needs Jesus. But some of you don't want him.

"Which is why people focus so much on sex, it's not like you can have HUGE adventures in life, and if you do, it is often dangerous. Nobody likes unsafety, people want to be happy." No people focus on sex because they lack structure. They lack purpose in life and when taught they forsake the things of God for worldly things. People born in the world is of the world. Those born of the spirit is of spirit, those of flesh is of flesh. I like adventure and stuff but why does it have to be dangerous? Not everybody is a thrill seeker and that's okay. But again it's about INTENT. If your intent is bad you suffer more.

[btbc92]

"And women buy tons of sex toys, that I am certain. So they want sex toys, but are surprised that men view them (in a way) as sex toys?" I already told you. WOMEN would not do that if men overall didn't treat them that way. It is now ingrained in their genetics and behavior. So they now assume it's normal. A woman wants to be LOVED. That's why they overall want sex but desire love. Men get sex but can live without love. That leaves women LONELY. It's all right there in the Bible. I don't mess with that stuff. But I've yet met a man who doesn't really watch porn or masturbate yet I'm told I'm a prude. Wow.

"Well I mean they dress with heels and makeup too!" Because that is what men LIKE in a woman. And women learned to love and like those things. Because worldly men want that in women. If a woman doesn't conform to what a man wants a man will not be with them. I know. I'm Christian. I wouldn't be single all my life if that wasn't the case. I don't like makeup and I can't stand heels.

"No, I do not view women as sex toys, but there is only so much to talk about and connect over before it becomes meaningless outside of sex.
Isn't the only things that you can really do in this non-spiritual realm, DMT drugs and sex?" Uh no? Because I have a life outside of that nonsense. And as I told you before. Broken people who have issues do that. Normal people do not unless they have hidden issues they keep a secret. Many people have secrets.

[btbc92]

"I mean, what do young women do when bored anyways? Apparently they do NOT have any interest in men, and do not consider men, to be something that can ease boredom or something they DESIRE. Women age, get sick, and suffer anxiety too. But apparently unlike men, they do NOT consider SEX to be the ONLY thing you can do in life. Like most men would agree that pretty much the immediate thing there is to do in life is have sex." I think I already told you this. I said this before. They get bored because you don't entertain them or there is something about you that is unappealing.

"Dunno what it feels like to be a woman. Am not one after all." Women are human too. We are not that different from you. It just sounds like you don't have a life and are miserable about it.

[internetguy1]

No I only have a relationship/woman problem.
So you are Christian so I guess you believe that life should make some sense, right? But to me women are like not attracted to men. Which makes no sense. So life is a cruel joke against, men? Weird. Or maybe life is meant to be 90% dissatisfaction on every dimension of life. And that includes sex and dating for men. If it was even 50% satisfaction, 50% dissatisfaction, there would at least be some women on the internet I could find.

Dunno why sexual desires would even exist at all if women are not attracted to men /do not care about sex. Seems pointless and only cause greater torment. Maybe I just haven't found the right women. Or maybe I live in the wrong part of the MultiVerse or the Many-Worlds parrallel-verse.
Women are of course choosy and don't like many men.
Dunno why we live in a universe where women are not attracted to men though. Seems like pure sadism to me!

[btbc92]

"Like most men would agree that pretty much the immediate thing there is to do in life is have sex." You know why? Because you've been brainwashed to think that, and it's not true. Just like we women have been brainwashed to see a man by having sex and that is not true either. It's lies. We all been lied to by satan. That is why the Bible warns about not following after the world. The world does not care about you.

[btbc92]

"No I only have a relationship/woman problem." No. You don't only have a woman problem, it's because you don't want to fix it. And that's on you.

"So you are Christian so I guess you believe that life should make some sense, right?" No. That has nothing to do with being Christian. That is a personality type of thing. Not a Christian thing. Christians are no different than other people. We just believe in God the father our creator, and most people do not. Or they don't care. Yet they are living a life based on his rules and design.

"But to me women are like not attracted to men." Again where the hell are you getting that from? If women weren't attracted to men you wouldn't be here! You have parents like most of us do. Unless you came here without one. Somebody helped brings you into this world.

"Which makes no sense. So life is a cruel joke against, men? Weird." Again. No. You just see sex as everything. You think your owed sex. Your not. It's a choice. At any given time you could have slept with another dude, slept with SOMETHING. But you're lamenting about a woman. Either way, your desires at this point are basically strictly on a sinful standpoint either way. I have plenty of male friends and they have girlfriends, wives having sex, etc. They are not 6 foot, except maybe one or two, but have something to offer. They cannot, they make friends. And they bond, that's how they get girlfriends.

[internetguy1]

btbc92, consider this: You are a 21 year old woman (or 28 or whatever). You are bored. It is quarantine time due to covid, it is winter break. What do you do? Play games online? Try to do something cool/productive? Maybe, but what do you do for fun?
I mean other than smoking DMT, the only thing to do is have sex. So are women not attracted to men? Well, I mean they have sex all the time, right? But they aren't attracted to men? ARE THEY? If they aren't, than well... they aren't. Dunno why it is this way though.

[btbc92]

"Or maybe life is meant to be 90% dissatisfaction on every dimension of life. And that includes sex and dating for men. If it was even 50% satisfaction, 50% dissatisfaction, there would at least be some women on the internet I could find." Or it's how YOU choose to basically make of God. God is in control, but everyone has free will. If you called to marriage you will find a mate and sex partner. PERIOD. If you are not called, you may still find somebody, but it may be at your and their detriment. IT's not for you to find. Not right now with that mentality. It's about changing your perspective and how you treat sex and view women. Until you start humanizing women again, you're just going to deter such women who do, and those who want you for sex are not going to bother because either you again are not attractive to them, or you don't pick up on social cues from a woman. You're not supposed to be doing that kind of stuff anyway. But stop whining about it.

[btbc92]

"Dunno why sexual desires would even exist at all if women are not attracted to men /do not care about sex. " Are you even paying attention? God created us! He created sex, how it works and what and who would be fit in doing so. Women need LOVE. Do you have LOVE to give? Obviously not. Because all you worry about is sex. Then complain about why women don't care about sex. Women do. If we didn't many of us would just have sex and not care if we live or die. We wouldn't be having billions of abortions every year, or worry about STDs we would all be having sex like animals. So what are you saying? What your saying is that YOU PERIOD are just mad you're not having sex. That's all. Just say that instead of saying ow women aren't interested in men, attracted to men, or don't want sex. It's just you. Because your not interested in women. Your not attracted to women. You're attracted to a woman's body, but you mainly want sex. Your selfish and don't want to put in work. That's all. Because you don't want to work for it. You don't want to work and put effort to keep a woman.

[btbc92]

"btbc92, consider this: You are a 21 year old woman (or 28 or whatever). You are bored. It is quarantine time due to covid, it is winter break. What do you do? Play games online? Try to do something cool/productive? Maybe, but what do you do for fun?" I do my homework. I take care of my family. I was working 21. I play my video games IF I can. I tried hanging out with my friends, IF I had money. I read the word of God. I focus on building on my future. That is way more important than a man.

"I mean other than smoking DMT, the only thing to do is have sex." No is not. Because 1, I would never have sex outside of marriage. And two I don't treat sex like I told you before like a plaything. There is more to life than just sex. I am near 30 a virgin without sex, why do I need sex? I don't need it. If I wanted that I know to get a husband and share that bond with my husband. But once a child is conceived its time to raise and take care of that child.

"So are women not attracted to men? Well, I mean they have sex all the time, right? But they aren't attracted to men? ARE THEY? If they aren't, than well... they aren't. Dunno why it is this way though." Have you even graduated High School or middle school? You sound like your IQ is lower than 70.

[btbc92]

How you basically make your life*

[internetguy1]

Friend, not talking about religion, but about theology DUH. No one likes absurdity, and the universe that's given to you is not one you can control.

Anyways, that's besides the point. And no, I am not "strange" for seeing sex as everything. No I do not see it as "everything" either, but as you said, it is a massive energy humans feel. An uncontrollable electric voltage you cannot throw away.
Dunno, maybe God is good but this is the way it is meant to be. Whatever what that means.
But I don't know why women don't agree, that other than sex, there isn't much to do. This is why people even ask questions about having sex in OUTER SPACE:Because SPACE itself is an empty vacuum, but having sex while up there away from earth is euphoric.

[btbc92]

Again. This has nothing to do with RELIGION. It how God made everything. If you don't like that. Ask him. Not me, not us! And yes you are. Because you badly want something you refuse to get yourself. You overall do not sound attractive. And your looks are not the reason. Your mentality and attitude are! I would not be surprised, no offense if you don't have many friends either. Otherwise, please do NOT tell me how you don't need friends. I heard all of that excuses too. You make excuses. A woman is NOT attracted to guys like you who think like that. I bet you that you do physically attract women. But they see how you are and go elsewhere.

[btbc92]

Theology has ZIP to do with it. You lack the necessary human skills and compacity to even do the basics of relationships. And my suggestion is serious professional counseling. Because this sounds like something that needs to be seen by a professional. If your in college, PLEASE refer to your school counselor, or call up your PCP and ask to speak with somebody who can offer to counsel services within your insurance or whoever is financially liable for you to provide. This sounds like something else now that requires professional help.

[internetguy1]

That's the problem, and I am sure many men would agree:"That is way more important than a man". Exactly. That is the problem with GOD's creation. Men are massively obsessed with women and consider sex to be of ultimate importance. Women just don't care about men.
And that is the crux of my original quesiton: Women do not care if they are lonely.
Also you being a virgin is NOT normal, most women in the united states do not care to follow guidelines like no sex before marriage even if they ARE christian. And many people read the Bible anyways, even if they are not christian.
Women do not care if they do not have men or sex, as a Christian you would claim that this is God's design. Yeah, and it's a design that causes a lot of disappointment for men, certainly.
Also I am a college student and my IQ is not 70, thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know. Build a good group of friends with things in common that you like to do like adventurous shot or something. You can’t get lonely when you’re enjoying life.

[internetguy1]

yes but women do not care to find men or have men and are completely content with having sex with men, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Some sure, but far from all.

[internetguy1]

yes and you understand this is frustrating for men because you know that men always desire women and cannot do without women or sex with women, right?
but women are completely content without having sex with men.

not a good creation. Not a good design.

[Opinion Owner]

I disagree. Women like relationships and many men don’t appear to.

[internetguy1]

yes but women do not need men or want men, right? They don't like just pure fun sex, either?
Which is not good, because men enormously desire women.
What do women actually think of men? Would they care at all if men vanished?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Healthy men and women like and want each other. I presume your parents had a terrible ‘relationship’

[internetguy1]

Yes, friend but as a whole do women even care to have men? Like men desire women and always come to women, but do women even want men?

[Opinion Owner]

Like I’ve already said, yes. I’m not going to keep repeating it.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Really? I find men deal with loneliness way better. Just that there are more lonely men than women in the world

[Anonymous]

I love be3ing alone. I think that you might be on crack

[internetguy1]

I meant, with the opposite gender, dude. It's easy to just have "friends" anyways... Although maybe not if you're isolated...

[Opinion Owner]

men need women because they need sex but women are sexual camels? somewthing like that?

[iseekpinetrees]

Women get upset about being lonely too