Don't give up! I'm shy and I open up to people very slowly. It took me a year and a half to befriend this one guy, and he was talkative as hell. But when shy people open up and give you their trust, its very worth it. Some of the shy girls and guys I've befriended are very interesting people on the inside only if you just spend more time trying to know them.
But just don't pester her all the time, she's shy for a reason. Maybe she doesn't like so much contact all the time. I know I'm very self-conscious and talking in front of anyone is very hard for me. Try talking to her online if you have Facebook or text her if you have her number. It usually works better for shy people like me.
Good luck :) And remember, be a gentleman. ;D
By the way, her remembering details of past conversations doesn't always mean she's nervous. She might actually like you. Because I remember and treasure all the details of moments with my crush when no one else does (even him!).
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just give it some time, she is either playing hard to get or actually is shy. If you like this girl, you'll keep trying. Give it maybe three more weeks, and if the situation remains the same, you could consider giving it a break to see if she would try to contact you.
i have a question though.. how were you first attracted to this girl, if she's so shy?
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