Why my guy friend enjoys hurting me?

[Deimy]

It is interesting for me. What makes a guy to be kind, friendly and respectul to all his female friends but abusive to his one female friend? I did nothing wrong to him. Also we are very similar to each other... We are in no contact for months, I did not see him for a year. He still watches all my stories, wish me happy birthday, when something important happens to me he told about it to others.

What could cause this guy to act like that? Maybe trauma? He often says ,, love does not exists".

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What do you think?

[jaybee281]

The real question is do you like him? I've dealt with a girl who was "my friend" in the same manner just because I really liked her and I wasn't sure if she liked me or not and many times when I felt like I was losing her i just start calling her names and giving her examples of bad things she has done and things that could affect her vanity/self-esteem - right now if i told her that this was the actual reason she wouldn't believe me even if she likes me.. Ironically I'm in no contact with her as well what a great typical world we live in

[Deimy]

Oh is very interesting. He acts the same way but he denies his feelings. Once I said that I have some feelings for him but he rejected me. Still he flirted with me and joked about sex with me, still wanted to hang out... when I asked why he is nervous with me only he replied:" cause I don' t like you as a crush"... Yes I like him more than a friend but till I told him about my feelings I never show it to him. Also interesting that he kept reminding after months me about my message where I told about my crush on him so what do you think?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t like you hun and talk to you out of pity. Leave that friendship. Find real friends! Life is too short for unsure people.

[Deimy]

He initiates contact with me and flirts with me, jokes about sex with me...

[Opinion Owner]

Oh it’s a game, nothing more

[Deimy]

Why he is playing with me only?

[boggboss]

Sorry what is it he does