Can I get mad that he ghosted me for Valentine’s Day if I ghosted him at Christmas?

[Anonymous]

my ghosting was different because we gotten into an argument on Christmas Eve so I just blocked him cause I didn’t wanna ruin the holidays with my family dealing with the drama. Before new year I messaged hun apologised sincerely and fixed everything.
but it’s Valentine’s Day and he started ignoring me since two days ago and I’m certain he’s doing it on purpose. We where on really good terms before this.. feels like he’s just resentful...

[Anonymous]

Well think if it was reversed, you'd probably feel the same right? Even if he was to "blame". Even if you had just told him at the time, "look, I can't deal with this right now, I'll talk to you later" vs ghosting. I can't speak for him, but I wouldn't "forgive and forget" either personally lol. It very well could be "revenge"? It may not be "fixed" for him? But, are you sure about this? Maybe something else is going on you don't know about? Like something happening in the family or something? Not very likely, but possible.

[TheFlak38]

As I always say, it's only a problem when men do it. Whatever that is. When women do it it's fair play.

[Asker]

Not an issue, not majorly. Just annoying I’m not mad at him just confused. I’m not going to put pressure on it though. I texted him twice two days ago, I’ll give him the space he’s obviously seeking and see what happens I guess

[Angelo75]

This relationship is toxic.
Cut your losses... both of u... and move on.

[Josh4206]

I mean, you could get mad but what's that going to accomplish?

[Anonymous]

if he's that petty then screw him he's not worth your time or energy. if he's not that petty then he could just be really busy

[Asker]

I texted him happy Valentine’s Day. I feel I shouldn’t have had to have be the one to do that but I do know he’s insecure as hell at times and knew I was at a college party last night SO I thought best text him incase there’s a chance he’s trying to test me.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You already are mad at him 😡😂😂

[Sam_The_Savage]

Big salute for your guy

[Anonymous]

No actually. Just let him get even

[Anonymous]

You both are behaving like children.. Grow up.

[Asker]

We’ll try

[Waldoe]

you sound VERY immature, I would ghost you too...

[Shihab-91]

Now that is a nice beginning

[Anonymous]

That's karma