Is it weird that my boyfriend has post notifications on for certain people (exes, etc)?

[Anonymous]

I saw my boyfriend's email a few months back and noticed that he had email notifications from Facebook but they were only of specific people. Usually facebook sends notifications of random friends.

Those people were his ex, whom is his best friend now. His ex's (bff) girlfriend and one of his exes. I'm pretty sure it wasn't a coincidence either.

[spartan55]

You don't mind that your boyfriend is 'best friends' with his ex, but you are sweating Facebook notifications? Are you serious?

[Asker]

I did have an issue with it at first but I realized it's not like that. It still bothers me a bit, with how close he is to her and I wonder if I'll ever have that closeness with him.

She's a lesbian now, like boyish lesbian and lives in another state.

[Asker]

That's why I'm not worried

[spartan55]

Well yeah you are worried or you wouldn't have posted this. Wtf are you talking about?
You already don't trust him so you should just end it.

[Asker]

So you question why I'm questioning post notifications as opposed to him being friends with his ex and then turn and say something else?

[Asker]

make up your mind. This is about potential attachment issues it seems like he could have and it's weird

[spartan55]

Make up my mind about what? Everything I'm mentioning ties together. You are focusing on something that really doesn't matter. There are definitely bigger issues in your relationship. Attachment issues? She is his 'best friend' so I'm not sure what you mean by 'attachment issues'. Is there a reason you don't trust him? Or are you just going to ignore that?