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Is it wrong to feel bothered that my boyfriend is posting himself so much online?

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My boyfriend used to be very active on social media but he stopped once he met me (I’m not big into social media). He said he realized that it’s a waste of time and now prefers to only go on social media for news updates. However, recently he decided to make a new page. He only ever posts himself and said he wants to create a brand (he’s selling fitness programs). I’m not comfortable with it.

He’s posting shirtless pictures of him and I don’t like how much he’s exposing himself (his body especially). He also never posts me on his socials (he did once or twice but then a bunch of creeps started sliding into my DMs. I blocked all of them but it bothered my boyfriend that I was getting harassed and creepy messages so he vowed to never post me again).

I understand he’s trying to sell his programs but I just feel like he’s becoming a sell out… He used to trash talk on “influencers” and yet here he is trying to become one himself. I don't know what exactly about this whole thing that’s bothering me though which makes me feel guilty for not being supportive. I’m trying to be supportive but I can’t help to feel some type of way… What should I do?

Is it wrong to feel bothered that my boyfriend is posting himself so much online?
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