White guys and Asian girls? Too many?

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Why so many? I am an Asian man and I see white guys constantly taking our women and it is getting a bit overwhelming. what's so wrong with us? And what attracts you to white men?  Is it just us (Asian men) that care about this situation? OR do some white women care that their men prefer Asian women over them? I know it's not EVERY white guy but seriously there are a lot.

ianm91 · Accepted Answer

I'm a halfsy Asian guy, I prefer not to date Asian women. I prefer to date caucasians, then an asian.

I just don't date Asians cause if I have a child, I don't want them to be 5'2 or 5'5 like most of my Asian side of the family is. Cause I'm a halfsy I've been lucky enough to get to 5'11. Lol so I tower most of them. Since I got a caucasian father, it was easier to live as an American.

My Asian mom tried to have me learn Piano, and I didn't want to, the only sound I know how to play is Rain rain go away.

Its just genetics for me if I have a family as well and Asian women are more strict, way more strict, but with their strictness comes their obedience and loyalty to their spouse most the time.

That is, if you date an original oriental girl or guy who grew up living in the Asian continent.

if they are Asian and born in America, they are pretty much Americanized, even if they have strict Asian parents.

I got two baby cousins who learn to play piano and study and try to be the best in their classrooms, that's another reason why I can't be with an Asian girl. I don't want them to make my kids do something that's not their passion, they do it cause they're kids and kids will believe almost anything you tell them when they are little. haha

Quadrophonic84 · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty sure those Asian women would argue that they belong to themselves in first place. Personally I'm not very attracted to Asian girls but I see how they could be attractive - the ones I've known were all hard workers, smart, had goals, had manners. Wow just listing all that makes me want to go out and find an Asian girl for myself. Thanks. You can enjoy the white women. What they lack in brains they make up for in whoreishness.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I"m an Asian girl and I'm with a white guy.

1. it's to be rebellious against my parents

2. it's because he's taller than most Asian guys

3. it's probably because the Asian guy I had a crush on for 6 years pretty much didn't like me back because he had too high of a standard for beauty and...

4. the guy I was with (the white guy) is does not have that high of a standard for beauty, he just wants sex.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Accepted Answer

I'm Hispanic and I just like boys :)

Ive dated mainly white boys cause that's what was available at the time but I've dated on occasions a mexican guy and a chinese guy, because they seemed really cool. You shouldn't mind at all and have fun yourself and just date who you like.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i think Asian women are with white men so they can assimilate better into american society. dating a white man gets them closer to higher status in their eyes.

RedThread78 · Answer

Well Asian girls don't "belong" to you. You say they are your women when really nobody belongs to anybody else. I do see where you are coming from though.. the media and hollywood has portrayed Asian girls in a positive light and Asian guys in a negative one which influences dating patterns. I'm a white guy and I'm not usually attracted to girls of my own race.. I don't know why.. I am just more attracted to hispanic and Asian girls so I guess in a sense I would be considered your "enemy". All I can say is beauty is attitute and if you have the right attitude and work hard at it women will notice you Asian or not.

Anonymous · Answer

well I like to point out certain things.

1. Asian women are sterotyped to be golddigger. and women have been reputed to care a lot about money and status and image, though not all , so don't be surprised if you see this.

2. and there are white-washed Asian girls in the u.s. they see white as better and there is really no loyalty to their own race. of course this does not apply to all.

3. there are ugly Asian girls with white dudes. its possible they were rejected by Asian guy who deemed them ugly and they found refuge with white guys/ugly white guys that saw them as exotic/asian fetish and took them in.

4.hollywood's racist and the negative sterotype of Asian males have swayed American Asian girls to see them as more undesirable. of course , not everyone is affected equally. you can argue whether the more positive stereotypes of black men have help them with white girls.

G-Daz · Answer

Wow, I always wondered why and if it really is true that it's so common in the US to be with Asian girls. It's strange to me because I never heard any white guys here in England, freinds/not have much interest in them (not that any don't) but it is really rare to see. It is a lot more common to see white guys with black girls here though which is a bit back to front from the US it seems lol. For the most part, the majority prefer their own race though

paigems · Answer

I am "white", I like asians, and we're not all bad lol. I don't really see why it matters if a white guy dates an Asian girl. I have always been curious about this though..is dating really that much harder for Asian guys?

l-hedoniste · Answer

"Taking our women"? These women belong to none but themselves. They can date who they want.

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

1) they're not "your women" 2) race doesn't matter 3) get over it.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm Asian and I prefer to date white guys. I've never dated an Asian guy for two reasons.  1. I just don't want to. 2. I live(d) in a predominantly white area.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm Asian, and have dated only white guys these past years (but dated Asians before that)... Not really a preference, it just so happened that white guys seemed to get to me first than their Asian counterparts ;)..

mike5150 · Answer

Its called preferance.There's litteraly billions of girls in this world quit focusing on the ones that upset you and start focusing on some of the others.

Anonymous · Answer

nobody wants Asian men because they have small d***s

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

What is wrong about dating someone of another race?

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