No he is not a player. Its a fantasy. But also it can be to cover up to what he is really hiding. He might be interested in guys or both male and female. See the thing is mot guys are afraid to say oh that guy is cute or he looks good. Giys do check out other guys they just fear to be judged or worse get hated by family. Let me put it a different way guys got no problem looking at other guys in the gym shower or getting hard watch porn. Come on its human instincts. Giys that say they don't get turned on by this well then let's go look at their porn history. You will be amazed on what guys look up. Do sit there and say no I don't. I don't care about guy code nor I will judged you. Just be real. We are in a new era and nobody really cares who your dating. You will be amazed on how many women like that your into other guys. They too have secret that they don't disclose but Cosmo has no proble exposing them. We all have fantasies and kinks so why not just do what makes you happy. Stop hiding and jist be you. No one can change who you are.
---------------Most guys who follow these women are hoping one day one of them will respond. If you are in a serious relationship with a man and the man sees a beautiful woman walking down the street and he admires her beauty and keeps walking then that is fine...
but if he were to follow that woman all around town gawking and telling her how much he likes her that would be creepy and weird. Why is it not the same for online social media? Food for thought ladies and gents because this goes both ways.
Personally I wouldn't bother with it or these types of guys. It's innate primal nature. Most guys do. Some only look but do nothing and some take it a step further. Some won't follow but still check out profiles without their S. O finding out. That doesn't determine that he is a player but that he could be someone that is constantly horny. Most IG models have made it easily accessible to have a look at their body today, so now men devalue women more. Not all but majority. These types lose respect for women easily and treat women like nothing. Just cause he is always horny, doesn't make him a player and get the girls. A player / fboy gets girls/woman by their words & charming lies. Like someone who flirts with everyone, comments on all girls posts and usually super sexual with all women would be considered a player. Players tend to know that they can get women and use them as they please. It's a rare find for a male to still have respect for the feminine form and appreciate it.
I MIGHT be unique in this one, but I'm gonna chime in anyway. I'm a photographer, and my primary genre is art nude. I started in 2008 at the same time my wife and I started dating. I follow and am followed by many nude models. Personal friends with some as well.
Following multitudes of women on social media doesn't always indicate a player. To some is just their cup of tea. Doesn't mean you're lesser to him.
Also, to finish, my wife has been presented with questions like "and you let him?" And "doesn't it make you jealous?" To which her response has been a resounding "I'm not that insecure"
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Hmm.. I think it's the same as watching porn. Guys get want to get horny and jerk off watching them. I am religious but sometimes my eyes just have a mind of their own lol. I try to avoid it though.
I don't really think they are players though, following those models is kinda like porn for them. I used to follow famous people like Sommer ray, Jen selter, Demi Rose, Bru Lucas, Bruna Rangel Lima. It's bad for my faith so I stopped doing it.
I think regardless of our gender we all have the desire to watch hot people.. Be it in porn or Instagram. Nowadays it's kinda common for people to follow hot people, not that everyone follow them for getting off. Some follow them for motivation. The girls I used to follow looked like they had natural bodies and worked hard for them.
Moral of the story is, we can either accept the fact that we get the desire to get off watching hot guys and girls or we can be sad about it and remain single until we find someone who doesn't do that.
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Yeah I’ll be single and find someone who isn’t into all that.
I don’t think so. I follow hot male celebrities or insta models but it doesn’t mean I’m a player. It just means I like looking at beautiful men. Maybe he’s the same. Plus, he’ll never get to meet these girls they’re just attractive strangers at this point. So it’s not like he’s talking to them.
Well, yes and no... It’s an in between thing answer. He can still be a decent guy and follow girls like that cause he’s a fan and not doing it cause it’s a nude model. Just likes the personality of the person and is just a general fan. But if it’s in a repeated pattern of him only following naked models on social media then that’s what he’s after and that’s the only time it’s a problem, especially if he’s already with someone. It becomes disrespectful at that point,
Admiring another girl to the point of wanting to see nude photos of her along with other girls too is classed as player type personality. Whether they are models or not, there’s a difference between being a general fan following and being a player... it’s easily noticeable
And I want to add... As for following loads of regular Insta models that itself doesn’t fully fit player category... if he’s being flirty with them and being sexually playful with all of them then that’s a player. If he’s generally talking to them formally then he’s not a player 🙃
Ah yes typical female insecurity.. Thankfully most women aren't like you.. No it does not mean he is a player.. It does not mean he will cheat on you.. If that were true, id be a cheater, having been in an 8 year long marriage.. Never cheated once, but i follow a few porn stars, cosplayers, and actresses and actors... Sheer nonsense.
Insecurity like that is extremely unattractive in a woman. your attitudes are like a person with a garden, having dozens of flowers available to plant in his garden, but due to insecurity of one single flower, he is only allowed to plant just that one, look at just that one..
Humans are visual creatures... Men and women both. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you will grow up.
Not a player no... That's not what being a player means or what a player does... Now if he had multiple girls he's privately messaging, video sexing with and girls he's meeting up with IRL then player...
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You can't make that assumption no, because guys are visual and we like to look at women. I could look at women 24/7, but I'm in no way a "player" nor would I ever cheat if I was in a relationship. I just like to look. We're visual. I know it's hard for women to relate to that because most of you aren't the same way, but it doesn't necessarily "mean" something.
he's not a player but a loser. I don't know how you could mix the two up. Step 1 to being a player is only put energy on girls you're going to get with smh.
Met such a guys before... such guys are never serious. Watch it for free wanking content. And he was a flakey ghoster. I don't recommend it. Out of experience.
No it means he's straight and likes the female body. You can be single and very lonely and still follow tons of naked insta models. You can watch tons of porn too. There's no correlation to being a player.
Not necessarily. I am following a lot of Instagram models because I am single and because they look pretty. But it doesn't mean that I am a player, I am very serious about relationship
Yeah, it’s fine for you too... it’s different for you doing that. You’re not cheating, cause you’re single. For taken guys jumping from one girl to another are players.
Honestly that's not true for all men. Matter of fact even the mature sophisticated loyal dudes get horny and some may simply get tired of looking at there wives all the time and may watch porn. Doesn't mean he's not happy with you tho
My ex said the same then ended up cheating with a webcam girl and meeting a girl in person I can’t fall for that anymore or believe it... I even always gave him attention
I just wanna be single because I can’t trust anyone and rather be single till I can trust a guy who won’t hurt me in such ways😞 I just want someone who only wants me
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