Guys, would you rather marry a gentle, pacifistic woman? Or a woman who will fight and kill?

I wanted to ask this question due to my own experiences on this site. I said in previous questions that masculine traits in women/tomboyishness are attractive to me. And one of those traits was a willingness to fight/kill.
Guys, would you rather marry a gentle, pacifistic woman? Or a woman who will fight and kill?
The thing with me is, I've known that women are more gentle and nurturing than men. They usually aren't as willing to fight or kill things. They're usually kinder. And I understand that a lot of men like that about women, because gentle women make kind and doting mothers to their children.

As for me... I'm not one of those guys. My grandmother is a pacifist, and my mother is willing to fight but considers the act of killing cruel. I loved them growing up, and I'm very close to them both, but I just never agreed with them. I always found women who are more willing to fight and kill attractive, because guys are more likely to do that.
Guys, would you rather marry a gentle, pacifistic woman? Or a woman who will fight and kill?
So when my ex-girlfriend killed a rattlesnake that nearly bit her father, it was one of the things that made me fall for her. What I liked about her was she wasn't like my mom and grandma. She was meaner than them. She was tougher than them. She was worse than them.

And for the record, I'm NOT saying I'm attracted to violent criminals or thugs. I find a capacity for violence attractive because, I see it as masculine/tomboyish. I find it attractive if a woman has a killer instinct, because she could make a good hunter or soldier or cop, or whatever. She wouldn't be merciful in a fight either.
Guys, would you rather marry a gentle, pacifistic woman? Or a woman who will fight and kill?
Personally, when I think about the mother of my children, I imagine a woman with the killer instinct; a woman who's less gentle than my mom and grandma. Ideally, MUCH less so! But I wanna ask the men here. What's more attractive:

A gentle, nurturing and pacifistic woman? Or a tough woman with a "killer instinct?"
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And again: I DON'T mean a woman who's violent. I mean a woman who's willing to fight or kill. Female cop, huntress, female soldier serving in combat, like that. I'm not condoning violent crimes here!
Guys, would you rather marry a gentle, pacifistic woman? Or a woman who will fight and kill?
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