Why do men chase lesbians?

[ct1243]

Now I know I told a former friend of mines I was GAY, but he won’t move the f on. He’s married, I don’t see him romantically, and I told him months ago I was going through a phase. He texts me today out the blue and I didn’t block him last time because I thought the was cleared up. So I told him again this morning it won’t work. He’s asking to be friends... I don’t think so.. I don’t know how to feel about that because I had to let a friend guy go of 10 because he saw me romantically. I didn’t see him that way and finally moved on.

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+1 y

I can tell you now no offense men : I don’t sleep with men , straight women, or bisexual women. I’m about to refuse his offer of friendship. Men being friends with women never happens. I have no straight men friends - gay and bisexual men friends yes

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+1 y

There is no challenge guys lol it’s crazy his approach. I have one straight male friend and he’s married. We’ve been friends over 15 years and I see him a big brother I never had. As for this guy he can hang it up because I’m involved with her and he knows this. I’ve had straight men come to me and tell me do their wives and gfs I don’t touch straight women , bisexual , or bicurious women period. His wife is unaware that he’s doing this.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

This... drives me... CRAZY!

No matter how many times I say it both indirectly with humor or more directly that I have no interest in guys anatomy whatsoever, they continue to pursue.

Guys, I'm sorry but no matter how much you would love to think so, you do not have the magical package that is somehow going to make me question my sexuality. No, my wife is not interested in you either. No, you cannot join in. No, you cannot watch.

There are plenty of videos out there to fulfill whatever fantasies you have, but lesbians are not interested in fulfilling your fantasy.

[ct1243]

I had to tell my ex husband to stop showing me his pics and a former friend to back off they don’t get it LESBIANS aren’t interested in them sexually I know I’m not and neither is my mate. She doesn’t play these games ( no 3 sums, no watching , and no joining )

[ct1243]

She doesn’t want me having straight male friends and I see no reason too. She is an aggressive femme and very dominating

[ct1243]

It’s pissing me off

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I have straight male friends, but most of mine fall somewhere under the rainbow. Those who are my friends made it there by understanding it was never going to be a thing and they are very understanding of it.

[ct1243]

She knows about my big brother that’s is ! He’s never come onto me sexually or romantically. I rather be friends bi or gay men friends 🌈🌈🌈

[Ez-Bri-Z]

They really do make the best kind of friends lmao.

I have one gay friend who I can count on to bring me the tea in the most dramatic way possible and it is just the best.

[ct1243]

I love gay friends like that 🍭❤️🌈

[MzAsh]

Men want what they can’t have.

[ct1243]

I agree

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

I used to chase lesbians before I knew that they were lesbians. I have had 2 former girlfriends who became honest with their sexuality while we were dating. So technically I never really chased lesbians before. They have opened their minds and both realised that they were lesbians and we were no longer suitable as partners.☯️

[ct1243]

That’s understandable and yes a lot of women do explore their sexualities before accepting it. I did for a while , but this is in regards to this guy who can’t take no for an answer and move on. I had to put my foot down for him to leave

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

Good for you on setting your boundaries. Some guys are just dumber than a box of rocks and don't know how to handle someone say NO.

[ct1243]

Thanks 😊 ❤️

[John_Doesnt]

Because we want to see the action. For some reason PornHub doesn't support AR without a paid subscription, so men will have to chase lesbians until we can get free AR porn.

[ct1243]

Men don’t be able to see two lesbians it doesn’t work like that

[EaterPeter]

I guess they think they still have a chance or sees it as their ticket 🎟 to three some.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

WWM.

[EaterPeter]

WMW.

[EaterPeter]

How ever that works.

[ct1243]

I think so.. but it ain’t happening

[EaterPeter]

I know 🙂

[ImpMontezuma]

Well, I guess some men would see that as an opportunity to get 2 girls XD

[ct1243]

Not how being lesbian works. I don’t know any lesbian who would offer herself to a man sexually or physically. A lot of men can be dogs and non understanding about sexualities

[ImpMontezuma]

I know, but most men don't mind to be turn down, if they have a 0.1% chance of success, many will try.

[Jack9949]

Probably a sign of low intelligence tbh. Like I can kinda pick apart the lesbians tbh. Except when it comes to porn. Then they start looking similar

[blondfrog]

Some guys like the challenge.

[ct1243]

Unfortunately there is no challenge the misconception men have about two gay women

[blondfrog]

I agree I would never do it. I guess they like it cause if they get rejected they have an excuse of "oh well she was a lesbian". Somme guys are just that desperate and pigs. Oink oink :)

[anylolone]

Same reason why chicks chase gays.

[ct1243]

As straight girls should why would a man chase a gay woman

[anylolone]

As I said, same reason.
You extrapolate from that.
So according to you, apparently because they should.

[ct1243]

Why would a straight male chase a lesbian? Just stupid

[ct1243]

What could a straight male possibly benefit from a lesbian?

[anylolone]

Same as a straight girl pursuing a gay guy.
You were the one who said they should, by the way.

Same reason gays pursue straights.
And according to you, they all should for some weird reason I "don't know".

[ct1243]

Straight girls aren’t chasing gay guys.. gay guys aren’t checking for straight women. You sound ignorant about how this works and you keep going back and forth with me ( werdio)

[anylolone]

Straight girls are chasing gay guys, gay guys mostly don't care, though they do get offended when girls say it's a waste that they are gay.

I had women who hit on me because they thought I was gay.

Gosh, one big problem at my time was straight women at gay bars pawing the clients and worst, the strippers.

Clients was one thing, gay men are more affectionate and have a smaller sense of personal space, but the strippers?

[LilLove96]

sex or a great friendship if he respects her. yes i have many guy friends but they are not the serious type and they are very risky. if there were a descent man out there these days i would choose to be his bestfriend.. i recently learned that it is not a good idea to cuddle a man as a lesbian because most men dont respect women...

[anylolone]

@LilLove96 I have a particular bad experience not even cuddling a lesbian, just sleeping in the same bed as her. Let's say I should have insisted in going home instead of sleeping at my junkie friend's house.
It was an interesting thing learning that said junkie once tried to prostitute my now girlfriend for drugs.
We don't hang out anymore.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not sure

[ct1243]

Me either it’s becoming annoying af now