And while all of this is happening, she can be very blunt and pretend to be like she doesn't really care much about the relationship and she'll just be there as long as everything is going well and she's having fun and not getting bored.


Well working out can be really boring. Huffing and puffing on a treadmill while going nowhere and other tedious things can really hamper motivation. When a man starts chasing you, it's unexpected and the fear that he may be out to rape, rob or murder you really kicks you into high gear. It's often a great anaerobic workout and the added adrenaline rush is a nice bonus!
Lol I think he meant the guys always have to be the serious ones in the relationships with some girls. Some girls just don't care I guess.
@Blackcosmo oh, is that what it's about?
LMAO yup!
It all comes down to the attention. That's what they love most. And women of today are more obsessed with getting attention than they ever have. And I don't mean to get spiritual here but it ties in with what the apostle Paul said in 2 Timothy 3:2 "for men will be lovers of themselves." This doesn't mean men the gender, but collectively men as humans, and women would fall into that category.
It’s a power dynamic. She’s testing you to see how much you’ll allow her to manipulate you. If you allow her to manipulate you too much, she won’t respect you. If you don’t allow her to manipulate you at all, she won’t engage with you. Know your worth and set boundaries. If she’s a quality woman, she’ll end the games. If not, no loss.
This is a great question. If you stop abusing the anonymous feature on GaG and repost this using your real name I would be happy to answer it.
Why does it matter if I'm using my real name or keeping it anonymous?
Because it’s at least a BIT more difficult to troll people when they know your username! Also, the anonymous feature was designed for use by people who needed to protect their own identity in case of a very embarrassing, or emotionally traumatic experience, asking something anonymously can provide a modicum of security to the victim!
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Running arouses your body your blood starts pumping, your adrenaline is rushing, and you both get to admire each others physical prowess.
Lol I think he meant the guys always have to be the serious ones in the relationships with some girls. Some girls just don't care I guess.
Blackcosmo, oh man, I did not get that.
Lol!
It's all about attention. Women tend to value attention over sex, while men tend to value sex over attention. We all have different ratios of what we value, but that's my general rule of thumb.
Dude, when you get good at the game, you are going to love doing the chasing.
I did for a long time.
Ego boost. Never chase a woman or anyone. If they desire you in their lives, you won't have to chase them.
Little lady every one man or woman likes to have someone desiring them, its how humans are made. It makes us feel beautiful and sexy and has no bearing on weather we act on it or not.
Because it shows he is interested in her and able to take a risk
Why is that interesting?
Yep I’ve heard girls say if he never risks initiating in such a minor way with little stakes then how could they ever expect him to take bigger risks and take the lead in challenging situations later on
Oh well, you got the question very wrong I guess. I'm not talking about just the initial stage of the relationship. It is about the situation where the guy tries too hard but the girl doesn't really care much. Got it now?
Well in that case why is he trying too hard? That’s going to signal that he’s desperate and she will get bored quickly. If she’s playing games then call her on them.. girls prefer honesty over fake try hard guy
It boosts her ego and satisfies her need to feel desirable.
Same reason men love being chased. If you want the girl to text first, there's always bumble.
ALL women love being chased. Everyone wants to be wanted.
This is why we cheat until we find a woman, that does not ignore us.
It's nice in the beginning
Because they enjoy feeling desired.
Tell that it's human nature 🎶
They want what they can't have
I don't like it.
cuz attention is women’s currency
I thought they all hated being chased
Because it's minimum effort for us and its fun! 😂
So that's minimum?
Minimum effort for us girls, yet the guys always try too hard
And the girls don't care much which is kinda selfish but okay
Immature
Nature.
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