Just want to get the work out of the way asap so that I can talk to you without any deadline in mind- does he like me?

[Anonymous]

So recently I am talking to a guy, I am in love with him and I think he likes me too.

I knocked him yesterday as I haven’t heard from him for a while and he said that he is busy with his works and still he is working. So then I said, sorry for disturbing you, please continue your work, we will talk later. Then he said, he enjoys talking to me and he just want to get the work out of the way asap so that he could talk to me without any deadline in mind. What do you think does he likes me? Or he is just polite? I am really confused.

[Anonymous]

Yeah ofc he likes you. If he didn't want to talk to you, he'd say he had work and get away with it. But he told you he likes to talk to you and wants to talk to you with nothing weighing on his mind. Just wait till he's done working

[Asker]

Hey, thanks for your response. It’s really confusing actually. May be he is polite. You know, 3 days gone, he hasn’t knock me. I am so frustrated.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow. Maybe try texting first? Ask if everything's okay?

[Asker]

NOooo :( not a good idea. This is so painful waiting for his texts hours after hours..

[Opinion Owner]

It's been days. There's obviously something wrong, maybe even an emergency. And the more you wait he is probably wondering why you don't care. If he still doesn't reply then you have your answer, he never wanted to talk to you. But trust me, he will and he will be happy you did. He will at least apologise and offer an explanation.

But if you still wanna wait, try doing something to keep your mind occupied. Don't stress out too much for someone who won't text you first.

[Asker]

You are so kind and helpful. Thank you very much. You know, I knocked him the last time, thats why I don’t want to knock him this time.
Last time he said, he is going to launch his company within 3 days and thats why he is busy with lots of deadlines. :( then I said, i am disturbing you, take your time, we will talk later. Then he says he enjoys talking to me and just want to get the work out of the way asap so that he can talk to me without any deadline in mind. Then again I said, no issues, right now your work is important, please focus and then we said each other goodbye.

That was the end and now I’m waiting for him like a dead soul. Hope he will knock. But don’t you think he is just polite? Or maybe he likes me whom knows 😏

[Opinion Owner]

Oh baby, you're welcome. But there you have it, he's gonna launch a company in 3 days, he's obviously under so much pressure. Even if he has got all his work done and all deadlines met, it's still a tense and hectic time. I work in finance and I know what it's like. He's probably bet everything on this company and your text might just make his day. Just ask him how the launch went or something

[Asker]

ohh God! That means I need to know him again !! :( :(

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah haha. Good luck

[Asker]

Thank You very much Friend! <3

[Opinion Owner]

Heyy! How did it go?

[Asker]

Hey! I can’t believe.. today, I cried the whole day and then fall asleep. When I woke up, I saw his texts. We talked over hours.

I think all will be okay. Thank you very much. Very very much. 😁

[ToastyOats]

Would you ever lie to a guy?

[Asker]

Why this question? Yes, I told him a lie. I told to him that I like him in a friendly way. But I only know how I feel about him. I love him

[ToastyOats]

Ugh! The answer is obvious here. You don't have to come out hard "I Love you!" But you could hint at it or something. The word "Friend and all it's derivations are a Huge turn off. Most men do not believe men and women can be friends. You get a lot of guys that "pretend" hoping to get with you but few actually believe that. I don't.

[ToastyOats]

Literally, giving these opinions on here is closest I've come to being friends with any women and it's all just helping them get other guys, which gets me nothing, no one on here lives near me.

[Asker]

SO what you think? I likes me or not? I am getting mixed signals. Sometimes I feel like, he likes me and sometimes I feel opposite

[ToastyOats]

When he's done working you can ask him, and if he doesn't, I'm available.😆

[Asker]

HAhahaa