How do I approach cute guys in college when I’m shy but my classes are gonna have a lot of people?

[Paolaa988]

Since I’m going back to college this fall I’m gonna take psychology and either American civil rights or global studies and I’m super nervous because the classes are gonna be large and also face to face but I’m not sure how I can socialize when I get shy and whenever I see a cute hot guy I kind of freeze and get social anxiety. I wonder if I’m his type or if he has a girlfriend and if I will stutter or something. I really would like some tips though.

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I wanna attract 18-20 year olds like younger guys group. I hope i can. I feel so much anxiety and im scared they won't like me or notice if im older. I dress like im a teen tho

[ohshee]

Okay so I've never talk to you so I don't know for a fact I believe that you're an empath I believe you're so so settings you do become very shy when your face to face and that's because you feel other people's energy
When I was in school I used to run from girls and they would want to talk to me because the moment we got face to face I would go into a cold sweat my tongue got tied and I felt this sensual feeling inside of me and I used to tell myself stop it this is the wrong time to be doing this I hated it I wanted to run took a few years longer but I found out the reason why all this was happening to me it wasn't me that I was feeling it was then that I was feeling wish I could understand that I opened right up
Check into it see if you are an empath or if you're gifted in some way I know you're very emotional I know that you feel things deeper than most I would have to say yes you are

[ohshee]

1.098.71 weeks 0ld your are still a teen stop trying to grow up so fast . your do flipping funny 1 love when and older guys tries to talk to you because you automatically think that they're trying to pick up on you can you revert back to saying you're trying to find young teenager guys

[bowenw]

Many of the guys are probably feeling just as worried about the same things. Try to be yourself. Plan some questions or basic topics of conversation. Start with things related to the subject or college. If you freeze, just tell they guy you're a little nervous. He'll understand.

[Anonymous]

The best thing is to let your clothes do the talking. If you want to attract a guy, time to put away the jeans/t-shirt and go for something a bit more edgy, but still class appropriate. Things like nice sweaters and leather pants will just automatically give you confidence. Do you own something like this?

[Gwenhwyfar]

You don’t. Let them approach you. They’ll think you’re gorgeous.

[moviedude714]

You are against girls making the first move or approaching guys?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@moviedude714 no but if you’re pretty and you don’t like one guy in particular better to just sit back and let them approach you

[exitseven]

I get the feeling that the guys are going to approach you. Concentrate on your school work, the guys will show up.

[Paolaa988]

Im trying to attract 18-20 i hope i can pass as a teen. I get told i look young for 22.

[exitseven]

The thing I remember about college was that a lot of the clique crap that went on in high school didn't really happen in college. I had friends that were jocks and weirdos and goths. My roommate and I were in ROTC and we had lots of friends that were real hippies.
Nobody will make a big deal about your age.

[poneglyphs]

I have no idea because when, I was in university it was mostly for commuters. So, a lot of people didn't talk and if they did it was only for class. Unless you live in dorms, you will be able to make friends.

[COMMODOREII]

It will get easier especially if you get into study groups.

[msc545]

Try to sit next to whatever guy you inn class, or talk to him before or after class

[IHateBeingaMan]

odd question to ask because girls are not expected to approach guys or make the first move or ask them out, but at the same time, its interesting to hear of a girl having these thoughts

[Anonymous]

stop putting men in high position in ur mind. we are just as scared anxious etc sometimes. first u need to fix ur mindset and stop thinking so highly about others or urself. Relax.

[zohs345]

You need to get some confidence in yourself and be honest with yourself

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd you date guys that age your gonna get hurt guys that age don't want to do anything but hit it and quit it

[Anonymous]

Interesting that a woman is considering or has thoughts of wanting to approach guys

[BeachLuvR97]

Be bold. Let your boobers do the work!