Why do these men think I was born yesterday?

[Anonymous]

I hate when men say ‘come see me, let’s watch a movie, I’ll cook’ how about no, I already ate and I am already watching a movie. Knowing damn well he ain’t trying to watch a damn movie. Just say you trying to fuck! And my answer will be hell no.

[Ninjazzed]

Almost all men will never make their true intentions clear until post-nut clarity hits.

He’d rather make a movie and eat you.

They can’t provide financial or emotional support so they cling to this last leg of hoping you’re desperate enough to marry them and continuously show up as the worst version of themselves because they have no moral standing outside of doing the most they can get away with.

It’s sad really, because they end up cheating themselves, their family and others.

So I don’t feel bad.. because every day, men can actively choose to do and be better and they don’t.. because misogyny is a way to skate with doing the bare minimum and still being what women aspire to.

They have no incentive to do better. What is more, they use their inadequacy as a tool to perpetuate this situation, too.. men are fond of telling women they'd remain single if they don't lower their standards or be nicer, and that they have a vested interest in all men being trash.

[AmandaYVR]

Sure, odds are he wants to have sex, or mess around.
But also, it saves money not going out somewhere.
He's comfortable. He doesn't have to get dressed.
(And Covid. But guys are probably happy about that one. Gives them a good excuse for the other things.)

What if you just kiss and stuff. Are they too annoying, not taking no for an answer?

[Asker]

I don’t kiss men that I don’t know. I don’t go to men houses that I don’t know. I am more of a meet in public type of person. But yes they are so annoying

[Alyssa11]

Unfortunately some women set the bar way too low. In turn, some men think we all have such low standards. It's a shock when they realise we don't because we won't sleep with them straight away, fall in love with them after a few perfect words, and take them back when they disrespect us.

[Interstate]

Some Men are sneaky. How do you know they have an ulterior motive? Have you known them for some time? Don't jump to assume just because you have a feeling in your crawl.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Chances are if you sleep with a man, you already wanted to from the get go. I don't know what kind of men you're entertaining, but that's who they are and it probably worked once before in the past.

[Asker]

Nope, I didn’t. That does not work on me.

[Dalton57]

How do you know the guy isn't being serious?
Why don't you just tell him that it's ok but sex isn't.

[NathanDavis]

Are they all men you met just yersterday? how do they find you anyway? how do you find them?

[Asker]

No…months ago. But one of them asked me to come see him.. he would cook for me and watch a movie. I wasn’t falling for that shit

[Asker]

The asked me to come over today

[NathanDavis]

Yeah, but who are they... are they randoms, longtime friends, acquaintances?

[joeldalton]

Can’t imagine why you’re single. You sound like a peach.

[Asker]

at least I am not a hoe…sleeping with every dude I meet. I refuse to open my legs to any man I don’t fucking know.

[joeldalton]

You’re 30-35? Tick tock tick tock.

[Asker]

So and? I am not 32-35. I am still young.

[joeldalton]

Good luck.

[spartan55]

@asker no way, you lied about your age? Shocking. And a stupid thing to lie about.

[Asker]

@spartan55, I don’t lie about my age, 32, and black melanin does not crack.

[Asker]

I am 31, not 32

[spartan55]

You have a shit attitude.

[spartan55]

So, you lied about your age... you just did...🙄

[Asker]

Who gives a fuck. Random ass man. Woohooo my attitude is shit…..🤪😂😂😂😂😂😂

[spartan55]

A true delight she is. I can only imagine how fun it would be to deal with her on a daily basis. Who's in guys?

[Anonymous]

Good job I didn't bother buying a Blu-Ray player then!

[Anonymous]

Just your anger keep you warm on cold winter night?

[Asker]

I am not angry, I am irritated

[Opinion Owner]

Does your irritation keep you warm on a cold winters night?

[Asker]

What does that have to do with what I posted?

[Opinion Owner]

You're not a lot of fun, are you?

[Asker]

I am, but I don’t go around opening my legs to random ass dudes. If I am going to open my legs to anyone…is going to be my husband

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't referring to that. I was referring to you lack of humor

[spartan55]

Wait... hold on, you're married?

[Asker]

I am not married. I said the only man will be my husband…when I get one….

[spartan55]

He better be ready to deal with Ms Red Ass.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 Do you mean like a baboons ass? Bright Red and painful to look at?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

How would he know you already ate and why you ain't tryina watch a movie?

[Anonymous]

I see, you don't like sex.

[Asker]

Not with no random ass dude

[Opinion Owner]

You didn't say anything about them being random guys. So do you have no interest in any of these guys?

[Asker]

Nope.

[NightHawk99]

Prolly because they witnessed it.

[dudeinohio]

All right then.