Are these men silly?

[Mamasanma]

I spoke to quite a few men who hate it that teenage girls are attracted to older men and try to deny it as much as they can.

What do you think is their problem?

[Adam1978]

They are young and don't want the competition, because they think it unfair. Ie they haven't had time to build up the resources a older man has. Not much different from 30 women who hate young women competing for their age bracket and they losing in the dating game.

[Mamasanma]

The thing is some of these men I am talking about are in their 30s. They are past their prime for sure.

[Adam1978]

Men aren't past their prime in their 30s unless they let themselves go. And that's on them.

[serious]

Well teenage girls do tend to experience such attraction in their teenage years. Crushes are also common.

However, there is nothing to hate about such teenagers.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[BrookeS]

I think that they are bitter that a teenager never thought them hot.

[BrookeS]

Want to PM?

[Mamasanma]

Later sure

[big_ben_007]

Yes these men are silly but sometimes for good reason. Girls can have casual relationships with guys and not get hurt, but other girls want to trust a guy before she sleeps with him. She'll talk to him and ask him questions to try and get to know him. Its risky though because some men tell the truth and other men make up lies because it sounds sweet to her and he gets to have his way with her. Then his true side comes out and she realizes he's a dirty, creepy old man and she'll be heartbroken. Or worse.

Young guys aren't that dangerous. But there's older guys with mental issues and most guys dont want young girls getting caught up with dangerous older guys.

[Mamasanma]

Well that doesn't justify denying the truth or facts. It's just the way it is. Girls are attracted to much older men. They need to deal with it.

And i think young guys do this sweet talk all the time, that's how they get girls most of the time lol. I don't think it has anything to do with age but I agree the older person has mental health issues.

[big_ben_007]

Mmmmmm i love sweet talking a girl that I'm attracted to. I'll flirt with her till her hair falls off 😂😂

[Mamasanma]

by the way by teen I mean like 13 plus

[big_ben_007]

Oh ok.

[big_ben_007]

The younger a girl is, the more likely she can end up in some danger

[Mamasanma]

Yes but I am talking about the attraction only

[big_ben_007]

Oh well yeah, girls should be allowed to be attracted to anyone they like regardless of age. If a guy can like a woman 40 years older than him then the same should be fine for a girl

[Mamasanma]

Well how can it be not OK? Attraction is natural, it would be stupid to hate on someone because of it.

Some guys try to marginalise such girls but there are tons of such girls, and they just don't want to hear it. I think it's some kind of bias for men.

[big_ben_007]

People are misguided because they feel like their tiny little opinions should be a rule for everyone. Its bullshit to tell anyone who they should or shouldn't be attracted to. Nobody can control who they attract, its automatic. Saying its a bad idea to be attracted to a bum or a homeless person is fine, but nobody should say dont do that. Its not respectful.

[Mamasanma]

Putting them in a minority when it's false to make them feel unimportant or wrong or to make themselves feel better.

[Alex8736]

Because Teenage girls are goal oriented and want to move out, go to college and/or focus on their career but the woke boys will live in their parents basement till the day they inherit the house 😜🤣🤯

[DarkLegacy]

They just closed minded of course or worried about what people will think of them.

[Luffy1990]

They just don’t want to have more people after her heart.

[Mamasanma]

It's just attraction...

[Luffy1990]

Exactly why they don’t want others going after her

[Mamasanma]

Why would they go after her?
And what's wrong with it if she wants it?

[Anonymous]

They don't hate it. Every man knows some teenagers just like to bait older guys. And since thier momma should have taught them better and didn't they are annoyed. Don't confuse the two.

[Mamasanma]

They do hate it and try to marginalise such girls by putting them in the minority to make themselves feel better when they know older men are preffered among girls. It's incredibly pathetic.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you want to be willfully ignorant there's nothing I can do for you. 😆😆😆

[Mamasanma]

How am I ignorant if they pretend such girls are in the minority when it's obviously not true?

[Prince_09]

I don't know about old men's.. but i get attracted to teenage girls

[Mamasanma]

My question is why do they hate girls are attracted to much older men

[Prince_09]

No idea on that

[Pyrofox]

Egotistical jealousy.

[weysally]

one word, jealousy

[BrookeS]

Exactly

[Mansearching]

@BrookeS @weysally I'm greatful that a very young girl doesn't want to date me. Rather have 1 my age or give or take a few years either side. Don't want one old enough to be my own. That's my personal choice.

[Mansearching]

Not a clue. Or its daddy issues.

[Mamasanma]

Why would they have daddy's issues

[Mansearching]

Bc 9 times out of 10 the reason why young girls like older men is their dad didn't pay much attention to them when thet were younger.

[Mamasanma]

That's bullshit.

And I didn't even ask about the girls but the men who hate it

[Mansearching]

Ever take a psychology course? If you have then you wouldn't think its bullshit. Men hate it bc they know the young girls are looking for a sugar-daddy or the girls have daddy issues.
Its all psychological.

[Mamasanma]

Many girls do it for the sex or money or other reasons. You can't really generalise

[Mansearching]

Sex and money are 1 thing. With means surgar baby. Have to ask yourself what are the other reasons.

[Mamasanma]

Some girls just want a experienced man in bed

[Mansearching]

That's the sex part. Money part = surgar daddy. The other reasons are?

[Mamasanma]

She loves him

[Mansearching]

I agree in some instances. But from my experience and what I've seen. Friends that its happened to, its daddy issues.

[Mamasanma]

It's 50 50 in my opinion

[Mansearching]

I haf a friend who played pool with this young girl. Always played at bar or pool hall. Just whenever than ran into each other. He finally grew a set and asked her out. She said quote, "Sorry, I don't have daddy issues. But I hope it doesn't hurt our friendship. I hppe we can still play pool." Couldn't believe my ears. I felt so bad for my friend.