Is it normal that he never treats me the same after I did this to him?

[Anonymous]

I sent him like a 3 min video whilst drunk of me fully making out getting out and heavy with this guy and he just switched up on me, he also switched up cause his best friend said “he’s a boy not a man you need a real man he’s a good homie but he is skinnier than a 12 year old girl!” And I sent him a screenshot of it and then he started being distant I got mad cause he was being distant and that’s when I sent the make out video

[donkeyde]

I say yes if he’s in his right mind he should be mad with you and his homie. 1st you did him dirty making out with another dude while together and send it to him. Showing you have no respect for him at all. Second his homie talking shit about him isn’t really what a best friend should do because he should hype him up and if he that small then instead of making him look back in front of his girl and talking that shit help him get buffed and gain some iron. Dude only said about being with a real man to try and get you showing what’s available. If you trying to make it work you going to have to apologize if not sooner or later he going to find someone else because if no respect there and if he isn’t into cuckolding then why stay with someone cheating on them with another dude and being put in a position to watch.

[Asker]

I think he isn’t mad at his homie cause he seen me send the video then prob thought fuck it she ain’t respectful for doing that she’s playing games she ain’t worth falling out with my homie over but he should rethink that cause his homie might do it again with the next girl... his homie clearly doesn’t fully respect him point blank period. I’ve been making it work but it still ain’t the same as it was before. He won’t tell his other homies we are an item (probably just incase i embarrass him by repeating that behaviour right?)

[donkeyde]

Give it time and once he see that you trying to make it work and he reach the point of truly forgiving you then y’all be alright.

[exitseven]

I would be all done with you as well.

[spartan55]

Wtf did I just read?

[Asker]

a girl massively ruining her chances