How do guys on nude beaches control their urges?

[Anonymous]

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Doesn't it become too uncomfortable at the sight of open nipples and breasts?

[bzcxx]

well it’s really normal for us guys to have random erections all the time. it really doesn’t take much for us to get them - it could be as simple as a cute girl walking by or even a girl in denim shorts.
over the years, we’ve learnt to control our urges and defer them till we’re back home or till we find some privacy to take care of those “urges”. honestly, guys jerk off and fantasise about everyone and anyone - if you’re a girl, chances are your guy friends have masturbated over you. i’m sure some guys who visit nude beaches do find some privacy to settle those urges if they’re too turned on - guys don’t take long to orgasm anyway.
question back at ya - how do girls control their urges? yeah, the answer is most likely the same for us guys!

[Asker]

Guys are way more visual than girls. Girls might also have slight urges but girls are not that visual.

[MrOracle]

Not many single men go to nude beaches, and of those who do, they tend to be the ones who can get laid fairly easily, so they aren't so easily triggered.

As for the few exceptions, they get stiffies, and they survive somehow. A boner won't kill you.

[Jessica405]

Guys getting overt erections would most probably get hounded off the beach. If guys think naturism is sexual, they are sadly mistaken. We recommend all newbie guys carry hand towels with them to cover up just in case.

Getting an erection more than once, at a sun club, would get you thrown out.

[Putulii]

So erection is not natural according to you? 🤡

[Jessica405]

@Putulii It does not happen in true naturist circles. As a life long naturist from a naturist family, I have never seen a guy with an erection at naturist venues.

[Paige90]

I have seen two and they weren't walking around showcasing it they were sitting down. They are natural and they happen to guys but if it does they should just lay on their stomach until it goes away.

[Paige90]

It's rare that guys get hard at nude beaches or resorts. If they do they can just lay on their stomach until it goes down or go to the restroom and take care of it.

[Aussie-guy]

Firstly, a lot of the women that go to nude beaches aren't the kindest on the eyes. But sometimes there is a stunner, perfect body etc and it can pose an issue. As others have said, going in the water, or if you're lying on the sand, roll onto your front.

What's worse is if you are there with a partner or cheeky female friend and they do something to deliberately get a rise out of you. Those tend to take longer to abate.

Generally, here in Australia, on a nude beach, an erection is forgivable as long as its not being overtly displayed and the culprit does their best to conceal it where possible.

[Putulii]

How's a guy getting an erection is a culprit? Are u serious

[MTC29]

It's frowned upon at legit nude beaches and not allowed at all at a resort. If it happens at a resort, the guy should find a chaise lounge and lay on is stomach or cover himself until it passes. Honestly, guys who frequent resorts are into the lifestyle, so it would be rare to have this happen.

Legit nude beaches? Expect to be shammed.

[MTC29]

* shamed... or possible shammed!*

[Putulii]

Why tho? Erection is natural too

[Anonymous]

I haven't been to a beach, but lots of nudist resorts and it quickly becomes "normal" if everyone is naked. It's no different than if you were there clothed. It's not a sexual atmosphere, even though you are naked. That's something a lot of people in society can't understand. Nude doesn't always equal sexual.

[Hercules_142]

I have had erections at nude beaches. Its not intended, but it happens. I go there and understand its about naturalism, but if I see a hot nude woman or one is clearly looking 'at me', my human nature at times leads to it.

I think its about the energy and what goes through my mind in those circumstances. Like wondering if she is turned on looking at me- if so, it can make me horny.

But, it can be a challenge because I understand the whole situation.

Personally, I don't believe most/all people go to nude beaches just to avoid tan lines. I think the primary, unspoken reason is that they enkoy seeing nude people and being seen nude.

I am just being honest.

[fivebyfour]

Well I'm pretty small hard, under 5 inches, and I'm a grower so my soft is never more than 3, usually just over 2, seeing proper size or large dicks intimidates me so I don't get boners when naked,,,

I've had sniggering, giggles, and open laughter at the size of it, but only in "adults only" naked environments, at my family friendly naturist club there is no sexual aspect to nudity at all,,,

[snapkingmatt]

I do it by not going.

But also, the environment is different. Mostly, you're surrounded by really old people. That's no turn on.

[Anonymous]

Nude beaches are normally only in countries where they don't freak out about nudity.

America was founded by Puritans. They are still a very prudish people, who think nudity has something to do with sex.

It doesn't.

[Putulii]

But it should

[SummusImperator]

I have never been on a nude beach, but I am guessing they don't or they try to ignore the women.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Erections are completely natural. Just go with it, I’d say.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

No it doesn’t become uncomfortable. It’s only uncomfortable if you think it is.

[Asker]

Is it not difficult not to stare and get into different mood and the entire scenario becomes kind of awkward?

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Depends. Do you like looking at boners?

[Asker]

Neither do I like nor dislike, unaffected

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Okay then it shouldn’t be a problem for you. If you see a guy with a boner, just say nice cock or something lol

[Anonymous]

Some guys masturbated beforehand, have low sex drives, or desensitized from porn.

[OutWestBandit]

everybody is watching

[Wise4myage]

Going in the water or turning over helps, lol.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know I don’t hang out there

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

the same way women do

[Anonymous]

Masturbate people are going