What can I do if I realize that a man giving me a lot of attention makes me have feelings for him despite how worthless he is? ?

[Anonymous]

What can I do if I realize that a man giving me a lot of attention makes me have feelings for him despite how worthless he is? Its confusing because even when a man is good and seeking marriage not fornication, wouldn't he also give me much attention?

[Azura_88]

Please don't fall for that incel.
He KNOWS he's worthless and is inferior to you that's why he's giving you a lot of attention.
Ever seen a man showering a dumb, ugly or below average girl WITH SAME ATTENTION?
Men always aim for woman who is above their league.

[Azura_88]

So yeah, don't waste your valuable time on a worthless man.

[Avicenna]

That's hard to answer without more info to put it in context. How do you know him?

[Asker]

No ita a general question as this happens often where i fall for a guy (i never fornicate though) who gives me a lot of attention. I realize now that its becauaw he gives me so mh attention. Its notfor any other reason.

[Avicenna]

It's really about recognizing the problem and controlling it. It's pretty easily controlled though.

[Asker]

What is the way to control it?

[Avicenna]

See it for what it is and don't feel like you need that attention. Build genuine friendships with guys.

[Asker]

Very cool. I actually know of some guys who seem to be genuine so i look forward to that. Thank you Sir

[Avicenna]

No problem, and good luck!

[Iron_Man]

Stay away from him

[Asker]

I can try but it might be hard if you work with him

[Iron_Man]

Act busy and don’t give him the time of day he’ll get the point

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Wow.