Hello everybody, There is a guy, he is a student like me and we work part-time at the same place. In the beginning, he wasn't talking much with me apart from saying "Hi, how are you". About 2 months later, he got once the occasion to compliment me on my looks. While we were in the break area, a very kind female colleague older than us told me that I was beautiful, I got shy and I was like "ohh, cmon", then he turned towards me and told me "but you are really beautiful", honestly anybody can give you this compliment, so I thanked him with a smile but didn't think too much about it. Then again, a period of silence began for one and half month, we started to only say hi hello how are you and that was most of our conversations. After that one and half month had passed, we came to the week-end before the Easter Hollidays, we were working the same day and while he came to the break room he told me you have very long hair I like it, I thanked him and after that we catched an opportunity to talk to each other and learn more about each other. We talked about a lot of things. He discovered that during the Hollidays I would come to one of the libraries of the college in the city we live. So, for two days in row, he came there and sat there in front of me and studied too. I started feeling like there was something, but I couldn't show him signs too, it had barely been 2 days and I was and still am shy. After that he stopped coming to the library, anyways at the end of the week the Hollidays were over. I saw him at work and we still talked, there wasn't any problem but I did not understand if he wasn't interested anymore. Last Saturday, I catched an opportunity to get his instagram, a colleague took his instagram, and thanks to her I got the courage to ask him to also give it to me. I posted straight away a story, he liked it. two days later I decided to post again so that he remembers me, but he didn't see it again. Am I simply delusional? Do you think he is interested?
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A guy made me fall for him and now it seems like he doesn't care about me?
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He gave you his instagram, and he went to the library and studied with you there 2 days. he complimented you on your hair saying he likes it. So yes he seems to like you, but is probably shy just like you, or unsure just like you.. its in the body language that you will see more things. When you talk, how close is he standing to you, has he ever tried to find a reason to touch your arm, or hand or shoulder, letting people into your personal space is a big indicator. How strong is his eye contact. When you are sitting or standing and having a conversation with him, what direction is his feet pointing. Its small things that is there but we miss it because we don't know what to look for. But it sounds he likes you, but only more time will tell.
thank you very much for your answer. You are actually absolutely right. I will need to give him more time. I know I am not the center of the world and he may have things to do, but I do not understand why he did not come ever again to the library even though he knows I am there most of the time. He could have made a small effort (even talked to many friends about it and they agreed). What do you think?
He is probably just busy. But you can ask him too at work. Or just how is the studies going? that will trigger a response. Or straight up ask him, are you going to join me again at the library. questions creates responses. Or just throw it in there, you should come by the library again, I had fun studying with you or have someone to study with.
Long stoty,