Why does my boyfriend keep bringing up sexual experiences I had with a past boyfriend?

[Honey3157]

When I was in my 20’s my boyfriend at the time use to come to my place on his lunch break. He used to not say a word, put me on my stomach and eat my ass out until I came. He would leave once I came and went back to work. I told my current boyfriend about this and other sexual stuff with past exes. My boyfriend now keeps bringing the ass eating lunch break situation when we are sexting back and forth. Why would he keep bringing it up? Is he jealous? Is he trying to get me excited? Does he want me to fantasize about my ex? Does he not care that another man touched me? My boyfriend now eats my ass out but he has to get off in return. What is his obsession about my ex eating me out?

[Anonymous]

I’m thinking he feels as if you’re tainted. Like in a man’s eyes it’s ok for you to do all that w him, it’s ok for him to do that w other women but when it comes to his own girl to know that she did all that shit makes you look like a slut. Sad but a lot of us men think that way. It’s similar to when a girl is raped, sad it happened but a lot of men see her as tainted n can’t get around that.

[Anonymous]

I would say jealous/ wants to entice the same feelings you had with your ex with him. I am not sure how to respond to your comment about him also needing to get off in exchange for eating you ass though.

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Sounds more like he’s aroused by it. I don’t understand guys that don’t eat ass.

[Honey3157]

Aroused to thinking about him eating my ass? Or me getting off to ass eating? I do agree with you he is aroused in a way.

[fred_durst]

he is insecure beta
dump him now ,
he need to work on himself first , then he can have a girlfriend after

[Honey3157]

So he’s insecure on his performance with me?

[mazharhussainkhan]

No way to know for sure unless you ask him.

[Luckycharms12]

Jealous or wants to do it too