What you should do depends on where he is coming from. And whether you love him or not. Because you will get a lot of useless "leave him" replies here.
So... if you don't really love him, yes you better break up. But if you do love him:
When a guy/girl can't get over their partner's sexual past it usually means they suffer from retroactive jealousy. You can google that an you will get a lot of information about it. This is an OCD condition and it is not something voluntary. You should find out whether this is the case. RJ comes along with guilt. Meaning even if he gives you a hard time he feels guilty of doing so. If he instead enjoys that, it is not RJ.
RJ does not depend on him having a sexual past or not. Or his sexual past being quite more conservative than yours. But if he doesn't (or almost doesn't) have a sexual past the retroactive jealousy will be worse. An this matters when trying to deal with this condition.
That being said RJ is way too hard to treat. So be prepared.
People who project their insecurities onto others, hoping passing on their discomfort to others will lessen their own discomfort are dysfunctional and will never make quality partners. He apparently cares only about himself, and he's not likely to change in the near future. Do you want to wait around hoping for that slim chance he'll eventually grow up? Just because people are eager to throw their garbage your way, that doesn't mean you have to catch it. Think about your future. Do you really see value in life with him?
Tell him to stop being a cunt and either accept you as you are or fuck off. That's some next level insecurity on his part, and using your life as reason to make you feel bad is fucked up. Let's be blunt he will always do this to you, so find someone who doesn't care and likes you as you are.
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This is because he's immature and lacks the ability to understand that you had a life before him. I had this issue at the beginning of my relationship. All you can do is to try make him understand that was your past and that's over. Also tell him. Also tell him you are giving your 100% in this relationship (if you are). So it hurts when he does that.
Please do yourself and your self esteem a huge favor and dump that asshole immediately. He has no business judging you for what you did or whom you slept with before you met him.
He needs to grow up. Most people have been with others.
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