He asked me to delete all his social media?

[Lalaland12]

We met online and he was 3 hours drive from me. After few weeks talking he asked me to come and see him which I did. Stupidly things went wrong and we had sex at first met. For some reasons, i didn't contact him back and after 2 weeks he texted me and say sorry for what happened and hope we could be friends in sincerely way. I accepted and we talked.
He promised to come and see me, we both agree on time and date and he didn't turned up. He apologised that he had work as he forgot his phone at home. we still talked until midnight the day before and he still said he free the next day, he also was online the during the day he supposed to meet me.
I tried to believe that and we still talked
we still talked everyday till last week, then he decided to disappear completely the very next day for 6 days. when he was up on social media I asked him why he didn't tell me that he take break because i was so worried that anything happen to him like care accident or strke or anything worse than that and the only thing I can contact him is on social media. I took it off my chest and told him all my problem to him that I am very disappointed and he said he didn't have to apology for anything, he is allowed to disappear if his metal health is not good.
Of course he dont have to ask anyone permission for that but I thought we are friends and we talked literally till midnight the day before. I also told him that I had to tell him how I feel and even if he decide not to talk to me after then it's fine for me. But of course I still want to talk to him.
Then he told me to delete and block his social media and stop talking and I already asked him again and he said he doesn't want to talk so I did delete and block him.
Am I a bitch after all of this happend?

[Jesibel]

Hell no I think you did the right thing. He got what he was truly after on first meeting and now that he got it he basically lost interest and was probably off looking for his next conquest. You live and you learn. Next time have a little more self control and make sure there intentions are genuine before giving yourself to them that way you avoid situations like that again. Some men not all men but definitely some are dirt bags no offense any guys that may take time to read my response but its dirty tactics in my opinion to be fake or misleading just to get in any females pants then just ignore and ghost them afterwards. It's selfish and inconsiderate towards the female her feelings and her overall mental wellbeing. They don't stop to even try to fathom then effect it can take on a female or on there self esteem. So you did the right thing. You deserve better then that and if anything say to yourself he did you a favor cuz he helped you early on to see he was a dirt bag and that way it wasn't later on down the line where more of your time and energy could've been wasted. I hope my response helped.

[Lalaland12]

Thanks for your amazing reply. yeah I need to a bit of self control haha. TBH he couldnt have sex with me unless i agreed to it so it is my fault as well. yep so dumb. I thought it basically thought this was just a one night stand thing and i didn't contact him back but he paid effort to text back and apologised for all happen so I think he paid effort and want to talk a me again. Then we talked everyday but I start feeling annoy with his flaky promises and the disappear is just on top of everything. I didn't say he lie about taking a break from social media. he wasn't online at all so he said the truth. But he didn't notice me a single bit even we tetxted every single day and it really scared me to death that anything happen to him when he disappeared. I know we are nothing; not in relationship , not married, but that is at least he can do if we are friends in facts he wanted us to be good friends. (by the way Im 32 and he 26 so may be thats the age different).

[fonduegirl]

Somebody's guilty for fucking someone. His date offer sounds fake to me. And that friendship thing? Cringe.

[Lalaland12]

TBH the sex part didn't really bother me cause it was my fault to let thing go wrong at first as well cause I didn't contact him back neither as i thought it a 1NS thing. The part that bother me was he paid effort to contact me back and wanted to start again from friend which made me feel he wanted to get to know me. Then he was very flaky with every; his promise, he disappearance which very annoyed me.

[fonduegirl]

He probably feels guilty. I showed this question to my brother and he said he probably feels guilty about the rushed sex part.

[Lalaland12]

Yes. He did say sorry to me about the rushed sex. We probably won't speak again. My question is “am I a bitch after all of this? Was I too bossy or demanding?” I just wonder to improve myself :) thanks to you and your brother though :)

[fonduegirl]

Of course not.

You were both horny, there was attraction there, you did everything in your power. Don't play the blame game.

[Lalaland12]

Brilliant! Thanks dear

[Lalaland12]

Hey. I just found out he cheated on his girlfriend while he was talking to me. WTH! i didn't even know that she was existed

[KrakenAttackin]

"Things went wrong and we had sex"... OMG, you are hilarious. **DUMB THOT ALERT**

[Lalaland12]

HHAHAHHAA Thank you

[Lalaland12]

Hi! From your profile I can use you have a lot of contribution on this web. First, thank you for ur opinion on my post; however, I dont find it helpful at all. People post question on this web to seek for advice, not judgement. What do you think your opinion would help me? For me, i just see sarcasm frm it.
Please next time, if you want to give comment or give opinion about something, just contribute in a proper manner, otherwise please dont post because of quantity. I think you are mature enough to understand this as well. Thank you so much

[Iron_Man]

MoveOn he’s a flake

[Lalaland12]

Thanks for ur advice

[Iron_Man]

Welcome friend

[In_Trance]

Just let it go

[Lalaland12]

thanks