Guys, Single men traveling, do you actively try to hookup with women while traveling?

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Like do you actively and purposely try to find women to hookup with when you travel, like it’s a highlight of traveling /or is it not that’s big of a deal and you wouldn’t turn it down but you don’t chase for it.

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

No. Let's pretend I am single and not in a relationship as I already am, I would still not hookup with women. Reasons:

in case for work: I want to focus on my tasks given by my work. My line of work requires much focus, energy, discipline and I'm already mentally occupied.

In case of leasure: I would still not hookup considering I want to enjoy every moment of the place I'm visiting, not poluting the fun with the desperation of "needing" to get laid. I can do that when I'm back home.

J2ohhhhh · Accepted Answer

It depends, when I was in the Netherlands I didn't even try cus I have friends there. In Russia and China people are like 100 times more friendly so it is easy to make friends I don't need anything superficial. But when I'm in some shity unfriendly country like Sweden I'd turn dating apps on and do things that can result in hooking up.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I didn't when I traveled for work, but I am the odd guy out. I didn't travel extensively for work, but I know people who did and many if not most try to hook up in towns where they are strangers.
I would sometimes go to the hotel bar for a drink and if there were people in there, they were pretty much all trying to hook up. You could just tell the smarmy guy next to you sipping vodka on the rocks pointing out the hot chicks in the room was ready to screw any of the women in the room. And women do it too, if not more.
Sales people tend to be the ones who hook up the most out of town. Women and men, and no they have no issue sleeping with their customer's minions.
In short, it's common for people who travel for work to mess around. It's more common than it is not. That doesn't mean everybody does, but a lot do. I don't think I would want to be with a woman who travels for work all the time. I have seen the mix of best intentions with alcohol and it usually ends up with a stranger plowing your sweet, innocent significant other.

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

No, women do that.
It is very strange how they get stuck on wanti g a relationship, as a rule, when home/living close to others who 'comment', but the moment they travel they just want what they actually feel like.
Totally illogical (not to say stupid)

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Uhm, no. I'm happily married and I don't need that stuff.
I travel often, and recently took a two-day business trip with a female employee. The only favor I asked her was to give my daily shot of anticoagulant since usually my wife does, she agreed without an issue. I would have been in trouble if nobody would have helped me.

molonski2 · Answer

I dont know about " highlight " , but if travelling in a strange place , and you are single , its nice to hook up in some form , particularly in Europe ( when open , if not a local ) its nice to hang out with some female company , Australia - No , too conservative ,
Here in Asia , I dont need. So in answering Yes , Im saying " if I were single " then Id use apps.
Was a lot lot tougher prior to apps , really needed chance to kick in.

MrOracle · Answer

While I wouldn't say that it was my main focus, it was definitely a higher priority than when I was home. It helped that I was often on an expense account, staying in a nice hotel with a nice rental car, so many of the ideal elements were already in place. And, yeah, it wasn't that hard to be successful. I certainly wasn't always successful, but my success percentage definitely went up.

ZackBan · Answer

This isn't a yes or no question.

Because yes, when I go to a new country the least I can do is try the local specialty but no I don't actively look for it as if it's on the todo list I just enjoy my time and since it's temporary I take more chances with strangers. If one comes back to the hotel with me so be it if not I'll still have my fun just in different ways

serious · Answer

Well that is not true at all. In my case, firstly I don't travel often. Secondly I never approach women and I will refuse any move a woman may make so nothing will ever happen. I won't allow it.

Slartybartfast · Answer

What women think men are like, is only what the minority of men who constantly hit on women are like.  Selection bias.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Would not make the trip just for women, but if i am single, i would open tinder or etc to spend an evening with a girl or two.

Doesn't always have to be a hookup, sometimes it's just a nice hangout. In a foreign country with a foreign woman, like with a tour guide, but better.

ohshee · Answer

For me traveling anywhere I think it's a major turn on meet strangers communicate about anything and everything and Explorer and experience a hookup and I think what's even cooler is if you can become good friends

Anonymous · Answer

Some of the guys in the comments act like false allegations and STD's vanish as soon as you travel...

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Depends on if it’s for work or vacation. I only really travel for work, and I’m traveling with co-workers, so I don’t really get a chance to. If I ever go on a vacation it would be kind of exciting to meet new people though.

jamesgoldman · Answer

I don't have the time to travel or to chase  If I had the time to travel I'm probably focused on the absolute requirements and impregnating or attempting to impregnate a local isn't on my to do list

MTC29 · Answer

The trip itself is the priority, but if the opportunity presents itself, and it often does, then of course.

invalid1 · Answer

It's not like you can meet that much of women who are interested. Besides, we don't bother that much.

spartan55 · Answer

If it happens, great. But I don't make it any sort of priority.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I travel a lot and I’d say less when I’m out of town because I’m with work people or friends I want to spend time with. It’s happened, don’t get me wrong. But I seek it less.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't travel alone anywhere for vacations or anything, so the only travelling I've ever done is for work. Sometimes get lonely, but I don't look or approach anyone ever.

ThisAndThat · Answer

I don't travel to speak of and I also never pursued or had hookups and I never will, not interested in anything like that.

bolverk · Answer

No I don't actively and purposely try to hookup with when you travel, but if it happens it happens.

Pj1981 · Answer

I don't actively look for it but I might be more open to an advance from someone

Kaloopa · Answer

Yes and no. If it happens then great! If not I then oh well.. But its sure as hell not objective No. 1

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If I ever had to travel, it would be because of paleontology. But I turned down that option and having other plans. So no and no

zagor · Answer

Used to, at least on foreign travel. Don't travel much anymore.

Yaharro · Answer

We are not buying candies it's not easy for everyone

Shy_Steve · Answer

Some players might but most Guys probably don't because they are not that Confident.

padreflint · Answer

Actively no. As I am now single, if it were to happen, great, but I'm not seeking it.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Well even if I am not travelling I look for woman to talk, chat or hangout nowadays

lovetowatch · Answer

For me it is more with other men, so i can live my life the way i would love to live it. When i choose to do so  But love wife to death.

TheFlak38 · Answer

If I don't do that when I travel when should I do it?

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