Where do men look for good women (wife material)?

[Anonymous]

I have trouble finding guys who want the same things I do (marriage, love, babies, etc. etc.). At least they don't at this point in their life.
Do guys who are ready for that LOOK for women to make their future wife or just wait until she comes along? I want to put myself in places where there are men around me who will not talk to me just cause they could have fun but because they are looking for a future wife.

[Interstate]

I will be honest, I'm not interested in love marriage and over-populating the world even more than it already is, either. Not everybody is equipped for these. I deal with mental health issues, so the items in your parentheses are off limits for me. They say you find the right person when you aren't looking (oh God I'm in trouble!!). It sneaks up on you when you least expect it and it takes you for a ride.

I just responded to a post similar to yours; A girl was asking If she will every meet somebody who will love her back. The heading of her post is, "Will I ever find a mate to love that loves me back?". Check it out. I will basically say the same things to you as I did in that post.

[mike5150]

There is no specific place to actually find them. It just kind of happens. You sound like you know exactly what you want in a man who values marriage and children. That's good but remember a lot of men will want to settle down at there own pace.

With age comes maturity or at least self awareness. A decade ago I wasn't really sure what I wanted out of life, after a while I knew I wanted marriage, family, a good job, etc. I feel like that's a lot of people. Young adulthood is trying to figure out yourself. Be true to your values and what you desire and eventually it will happen.

[SwedishTwizz]

If you are 18-24 and looking for someone your age to get married thats why you can't find someone that want the same. The problem is not the places you are looking for but the things you are asking for at your age.

[Asker]

I dont normally date men my age.

[Anonymous]

It's very random.
I mean obviously if you go to clubs or hang out on tinder you will just attract one night stands.
If you meet guys through work or a shared hobby or a group of friends you may have a better chance of meeting good guys.
You may even meet them online, it just depends on the individual and what his priorities are.
I can be at a friend's birthday party and I meet 2 different women.
One desperately wants to get married and have a baby and the other is a total slut.
You just gotta talk to people and see where their heads are at.

[SomeTrashBag]

I look for honesty. I look for loyalty. I look for self respect. I look for modesty. I look for the physical traits I'm attracted to. I look for shared interests, maybe get invested into a hobby you love and meet men who share that hobby. I also look for a real and intense feeling of love.
I also don't want to marry someone who acts like a whore. Wait to put out, if you're easy to talk into sex, it's a bad look and it makes you easy to manipulate by men who are looking at you because, as you say, " they could have fun."

[Avicenna]

Guys your age usually aren't ready for that- look for guys in their late 20s at social activities.

[Anonymous]

Good luck with that. Fewer and fewer guys are interested in marriage at all, let alone at your age. Marriage has become a very high-risk / low-reward proposition for men today.

[Anonymous]

I don't know where to look for single women period. Why I always advise women to approach guys they like, don't wait for them.

[Abdulwahh]

Im muslim i look at tradition muslim women

[Jamie05rhs]

I have no idea.

[Anonymous]

2 words... older men

[Asker]

I know... They're still hard to find. I also think my baby face scares them away a bit hahah