How could I find a wife if good women are unapproachable and reject me and less good women are approachable, but for many men?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Don't get too hung up on labels like "good" or "less good." Every person is complex. Focus on finding someone you genuinely vibe with as a person.

It's tough putting yourself out there when feelings of rejection are high. But remember - even popular guys face rejection sometimes. The right person is worth the effort.

Try joining clubs, classes, or groups around shared interests. Common ground makes approaching easier. Smile, listen, and look for mutual understanding, not just attraction.

If you find yourself attracted to someone "out of your league," cultivate confidence through hobbies you enjoy. Confident men draw people in with passion, humor and compassion - not looks alone.

Focus on forming genuine friendships with women first before romance. Get comfortable treating all people, regardless of gender, with empathy, dignity and respect. That mindset tends to lead to healthy relationships down the line.

Don't stress finding "the one" right away. Love comes when you least expect it sometimes. For now, work on being your best self - the rest will follow in due time. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

You might not.

All you can do is be a guy worthy of investing in and then put yourself in the best light to be noticed. The social structure anymore is designed to keep a lot of guys single. a lot of women don't want traditional relationships anymore. a lot want to have fun to about 30 then settle down. But by then most women's value is severely depleted. Nobody wants to pay full price for a used car understandably.

[LazerBean]

By becoming a good man. If good women are not interested in you, it's because they don't see you as husband material.

[Tharithi]

That reflects your worth. U aren’t husband material