I was dating this guy who'd tell me how he wanted to go to Asia or another country to find a wife because "American women are not marriage material''. He's a Mexican American from Cali... the bay. Anyways, He'd tell me how he'd have exes who cheated on him or did him wrong. I told him that he's probably going for the wrong types and not all women in america are like such. I told him its not fair to foreign women in america who may seek American men to be jeapordize such for American women behaviors. I am not American, i am a French-Haitian black woman just to input. I told him how all I ever wanted in life was to be a wife and mother and have a family and have a husband that I can take care of, love, and please and he called me the minority. We started dating because I found out that he liked me and he was the one to approach me. I never cheated on this man, I never abused him, I never called him out his name. I did so many things for him that he even admit that he had a good woman but was looking in the wrong places. I treated him like a king (I can say all the things and type of things i did for him but too much to list- probably might on its own comment). Even his guy friends told me that I treated him amazing for he'd tell them after our breakup of all the things i did ofc. Im just confused as in a guy, who meets a girl who doesn't treat him like ish, who treats him like god, who isn't American, still break up with such girl of his dreams? Was this guy simply immature and not ready for a relationship? Do guys like women who treat them like shxt instead or hard to get women instead?
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Maybe he saw some sign that made him think you would be a blue haired, mustachioed, masculine feminist in 5-10 years. All it takes is the wrong comments... or mocking him. Now I'm just guessing.
He knows that I am not a feminist haha. That's another reason why he felled for me (his words). He said he found my viewpoints attractive: Im a traditionalist and have a lot of his beliefs. I remember a conversations with him and his buddies of how i explained how men and women aren't equal, how women played a part in modern relations crashing, etc... I... things many guys wouldn't expect any girl in America to say...
All I saw from the guys were brows raising in shock
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Maybe he said he wanted certain things but at the end of the day he wanted a woman who looked different than you. It happens There's competition... there's nothing you can do about it but keep trying to find the right guy. I would suggest you talk less & listen more tho because sometimes people only say what they think we want to hear based on what we've said. If you listen more you can find out do they really have what you want or not more easily. He could have faked some things just to seem more like the kind of guy you wanted. Just a thought
Because guys like that are usually just as trashy as the women they like to complain about. Hence why they rarely, if ever, are able to get a decent woman without having to pay her And why they feel the need to go get a foreign chick in exchange for a green card. Hopefully you didn't have sex with him, because otherwise you probably could have found a decent husband.
unfortuntely I did...
Sorry you were treated so badly. You'll find someone who will love you like you deserve.