This coach at my gym spent an entire class hour flirting with another girl in front of me. During the hour he’d go back and forth between the 2 of us and I’d ignore him/disengage because I felt that he was looking for a reaction from me so I didn’t want to give him one. At the end of the class he was frustrated with me and me with him. The following day he was still frustrated with me and left early during the time that he normally hangs around me. Next class, he didn’t flirt with the girl but only paid attention to me instead. I began avoiding him and his classes thinking that it’d calm things down. I returned to class after a few weeks then the following day he snuck off to the showers to hookup with the same girl where I could see them. I thought he liked me/still does because he’s always hanging around me, staring at me, & treats me differently than he does other women. I like him and always have but his behavior gives me a lot of doubts about his character so I’ve never felt comfortable sharing my feelings with him. I know we’re not in a relationship so he doesn’t owe me anything but still. They could have just left the gym and went home. Me seeing this makes me feel as if he just wants to make me jealous but maybe it’s not about me at all! Who knows!
Is he worth my time or is he just a player?
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